tHE aGe fAcToR !

[urmiladuhan]

Elders ought to be respected irrespective of their merits. QUOTE]

For what?

Dagar jee - here is a post about Mahatma Gandhi on JatLand.com. See Below:
A View on Gandhi
पिछले १०० वर्षों के इतिहास के अध्ययन के पश्चात, मैंने ये निर्णय लिया है कि अब मैं श्री मोहन दास करमचंद गाँधी जी को न बापू कहूँगा और न ही राष्ट्रपिता.

What do you have to say about giving respect on the basis of AGE? It is merit of the person that counts and how a person counts someone's merit that determines whether he/she will extend respect to someone elder to him/her in age

 

[dahiyarocks]

bhai yo kaam te jarur karwao.............


ek bharti hai hadde..........ghani senior...........

ek din mne chat mein phet gi a ue batta mein mne ke di ke ja hokka bhar la..........


ude samar bhi tha............pache e pad gya ke hum respect dewe se terte nhi di jatti ak ghanna e bada chaudhary lag ra se..............ar or bhi...........

mne te nu keh ke pachha chudaya ke mne ke pher e ki jhotdi khol li jo sir ho ra se.........


btao mne ke sapna aawe tha ke bharti merte umar mein bdi se...........

 

[singhvp]

I think it is a matter of personal choice i.e., how much importance one gives to merit over age. But please don't expect me to change my preference for merit.

urmiladuhan;286716]I would judge them on the basis of what one is saying/writing. Age has got nothing to do with it, I think

My dear youngsters,

Urmila has rightly said that we must see the merit/content in someone's posts. Age is just a digit and there is no prescribed benchmark for a man to be called old. However, a man may be termed as old when he becomes incapacitated in certain important matters which I need not to elaborate. Some of them really rock even at the age of 75.

We tend to forget that without the contribution of these so-called '"Budhas" (elderly people) our existence in the world would not have been possible. In that sense they are our creators. Therefore, one should not disregard these great "creators" just because of their age. Please note that when the "creators" will really get old, they themselves will stop putting their beak in your soup. Till that time please let them have some good time.

PS: My above comments are not meant for Urmila. I have simply quoted her post for those who have scant regard for "Budha"

 

[dahiyarocks]

Right. Age is just a digit and there is no prescribed benchmark for a man to be called old. However, a man may be termed as old when he becomes incapacitated in certain important matters which I do not need to elaborate. Some of them really rock even at the age of 75. We tend to forget that without the contribution of these so-called '"Budhas" (elderly people) our existence in the world would not have been possible. In that sense they are our creators. Therefore, one should not disregard these great "creators" just because of their age. We must see the merit/content in their posts as Urmila has rightly said. Please note that when the "creators" will really get old, they themselves will stop putting their beak in your soup. Till that time please let them have some good time.

bhaisahab agar aap apne te bujurg aadmi ne dekho ge te g lake ya thodi izat de ke bolloge ya nhi????????

 

[thukrela]

मैंने तोह यहाँ अभी तक कोई किसी से बत्तमीजी ना करते देखा






फिर भी अगर मांग है की उम्र भी डिस्प्ले की जाये
तोह इस पर एक पोल करवा दो
75% अगर हामी भरते है
तो मांग पूरी कर दी जाये

 

[dahiyarocks]

My dear youngsters,

Urmila has rightly said that we must see the merit/content in someone's posts. Age is just a digit and there is no prescribed benchmark for a man to be called old. However, a man may be termed as old when he becomes incapacitated in certain important matters which I need not to elaborate. Some of them really rock even at the age of 75.

We tend to forget that without the contribution of these so-called '"Budhas" (elderly people) our existence in the world would not have been possible. In that sense they are our creators. Therefore, one should not disregard these great "creators" just because of their age. Please note that when the "creators" will really get old, they themselves will stop putting their beak in your soup. Till that time please let them have some good time.

PS: My above comments are not meant for Urmila. I have simply quoted her post for those who have scant regard for "Budha"

badal ge bat ne...........per koe na upper chap gi pehla aali bat te eb...........

ar jwab te de do mere swal ka

 

[singhvp]

bhaisahab agar aap apne te bujurg aadmi ne dekho ge te g lake ya thodi izat de ke bolloge ya nhi????????

Bilkul theek baat.

 

[dahiyarocks]

मैंने तोह यहाँ अभी तक कोई किसी से बत्तमीजी ना करते देखा






फिर भी अगर मांग है की उम्र भी डिस्प्ले की जाये
तोह इस पर एक पोल करवा दो
75% अगर हामी भरते है
तो मांग पूरी कर दी जाये

karega kun mang puri..........???????????

hum te bera na ke ke kar de per jo es kotde ki chabhi aala se wo te khu ra se,,,,,,,,,,

 

[dahiyarocks]

Bilkul theek baat.

bas wahe baat ho ri se................

hadde nu te bera lagta ni ke chota se ke bda...........

ar pher mere jissa kime keh de(jukar hum umar aala gella bolla kare se) te galat hoja..........


esse mare nu keh se wo bai ke umar gella visible honi chaiye taki shru te e wo maan de ske.........


aage te u ke karam btawenge ke izzat lewega ak galli khawega

 

[thukrela]

karega kun mang puri..........???????????

hum te bera na ke ke kar de per jo es kotde ki chabhi aala se wo te khu ra se,,,,,,,,,,

हम्म .. यो तोह से, moderators का तोह मुझे भी कोई बेरा नहीं
अगर moderators कही दूर बैठे दूरबीन से ये सब देख रहे हो तो भक्तजानो की बात सुन ले

 

[ssgoyat]

I think it is a big problem. I think, respect has to be earned. Also, elder people should talk humbly and politely to junior members, which many don't. My reply depends on the content of their talk and NOT on a person's age.

Very true, Same here..

 

[dahiyarocks]

हम्म .. यो तोह से, moderators का तोह मुझे भी कोई बेरा नहीं
अगर moderators कही दूर बैठे दूरबीन से ये सब देख रहे हो तो भक्तजानो की बात सुन ले

we na sunne...............

 

[thukrela]

we na sunne...............

moderators भी क्या करे

आज अगर ये सुन ली. ..तोह कल को कुछ और सुन्नी पड़ जा गी
और फेर तो सिलसिला सुरु हो जा गा

 

[dagar25]

My dear members se request hai ki we topic ko itna complex naa banaaye. Being the author of this thread.......i would like to remind all of you people that the thread is about the reactions one gives after reading post of someone keeping in mind the age of the person. Age matters in a conversation and i think one's way of talking will be different when he talk to person of his age and when he talk to person above or below his age.

Discuss the impact of age on replies, comments. if you know someone is very senior/junior to you.....Would you like leg-pulling or rude remarks when talking to him/her. Today's MNC's Corporate culture considers everything as an individual...I used to call my boss by his first name in an MNC.....we even used to discuss about everything...even about girls etc.There was nothing like senior-junior but one had to act and behave in very very professional manner...but our society is different and gives importance to age.

My dear members...... revealing your age would improve communication......if not to a great extent..at least to some extent.....but would improve definitely....

 

[dagar25]

Dagar jee - here is a post about Mahatma Gandhi on JatLand.com. See Below:
A View on Gandhi
पिछले १०० वर्षों के इतिहास के अध्ययन के पश्चात, मैंने ये निर्णय लिया है कि अब मैं श्री मोहन दास करमचंद गाँधी जी को न बापू कहूँगा और न ही राष्ट्रपिता.

What do you have to say about giving respect on the basis of AGE? It is merit of the person that counts and how a person counts someone's merit that determines whether he/she will extend respect to someone elder to him/her in age

Urmila( you prefer to be called by ur name) you should delete the word JEE after my name as you must be very senior to me. Senior's merit is in the experience of life they have had. The ongoing thread is regarding revealing your age.

So I ask straight forward to every member whether they would like to reveal their age in their brief profile(member card)?
kirpya thread ko khmkha mat kheecho....inghan unghan ki baat kar ke topic ne change mat karo.

 

[urmiladuhan]

My dear youngsters,

Urmila has rightly said that we must see the merit/content in someone's posts. Age is just a digit and there is no prescribed benchmark for a man to be called old. However, a man may be termed as old when he becomes incapacitated in certain important matters which I need not to elaborate. Some of them really rock even at the age of 75.

We tend to forget that without the contribution of these so-called '"Budhas" (elderly people) our existence in the world would not have been possible. In that sense they are our creators. Therefore, one should not disregard these great "creators" just because of their age. Please note that when the "creators" will really get old, they themselves will stop putting their beak in your soup. Till that time please let them have some good time.

PS: My above comments are not meant for Urmila. I have simply quoted her post for those who have scant regard for "Budha"

I don't respect people who use derogatory words/phrases for elderly (i.e., buddha etc) - a "buzurg" would be so much better if one must empasize a person's age. Really, words/language can spoil or make a relation. Education teaches the appropriate use of language, I think.

i also think that aged people who have not learnt to give respect to juniors/talk to them respectfully/ discourage subservience, need to GO BACK to school and learn this important art of living! There is no age limit for learning!

 

[jsrana]

My dear members se request hai ki we topic ko itna complex naa banaaye. Being the author of this thread.......i would like to remind all of you people that the thread is about the reactions one gives after reading post of someone keeping in mind the age of the person. Age matters in a conversation and i think one's way of talking will be different when he talk to person of his age and when he talk to person above or below his age.

Discuss the impact of age on replies, comments. if you know someone is very senior/junior to you.....Would you like leg-pulling or rude remarks when talking to him/her. Today's MNC's Corporate culture considers everything as an individual...I used to call my boss by his first name in an MNC.....we even used to discuss about everything...even about girls etc.There was nothing like senior-junior but one had to act and behave in very very professional manner...but our society is different and gives importance to age.

My dear members...... revealing your age would improve communication......if not to a great extent..at least to some extent.....but would improve definitely....

भाई डागर जी, बहुत ही उपयुक्त बात कही है आपने | कुछ सदस्यों का मानना है की गुणों के आधार पर ही सम्मान दिया जाना चाहिए न की आयु के आधार पर | बात ये भी कुछ हद तक तर्कसंगत लगती है क्यूंकि देखने मे आया है कि गुणी व सद्वेव्हारी प्राणी को हमेशा से आदर दिया जाता रहा है चाहे उस की उम्र कुछ भी रही हो | फिर भी छोटे बड़े की मर्यादा का ध्यान रखना हमारी संस्कृति का अहम हिस्सा रहा है और हमें अपनी मर्यादा को नहीं छोड़ना चाहिए | अपने से बड़े सदस्य को सम्मान देना हमारा प्रराथ्मिक कर्तव बनता है | और अगर कोई वरिष्ठ सदस्य अपनी मर्यादा के अनुरूप परिपक्व वेवहार नहीं करता है तो किसी अशोभनीय परिणाम का उत्तरदायी उसे स्वं होना पड़ेगा |

ये सर्वविदित है कि सम्मान कर्म व उपयुक्त वेव्हार द्वारा अर्जित किया जाता है ना की जबरदस्ती झपटा जाता है |
मै एक बार फिर आप के विचारों से सहमती व्यक्त करते हुए इस मुद्दे पर आप के साथ हूँ |


धन्यवाद् सहित |

 

[rajneeshantil]

Giving respect to the age factor is not a good thinking. just praise good thinking. it shouldn't matter whether it is a product of young brain or old. i am not in favour of simply respect our elders just because they grew older than us. give respect to the mentality and the positive approach one has. secondly, mentioning age will not solve the purpose. phir JLers hi kisi old aged ko kahenge ki apse aise vichar ya reply ki ummed nahi thi. there might be many with UMAR 55 ki and DIL BACHPAN KA.

 

[dagar25]

@J S Rana

Thanks Rana Saab, I am totally agree with you.......and likes following line in your post very much. I think other members should also consider this.......

"छोटे बड़े की मर्यादा का ध्यान रखना हमारी संस्कृति का अहम हिस्सा रहा है और हमें अपनी मर्यादा को नहीं छोड़ना चाहिए"

 

[jsrana]

Giving respect to the age factor is not a good thinking. just praise good thinking. it shouldn't matter whether it is a product of young brain or old. i am not in favour of simply respect our elders just because they grew older than us. give respect to the mentality and the positive approach one has. secondly, mentioning age will not solve the purpose. phir JLers hi kisi old aged ko kahenge ki apse aise vichar ya reply ki ummed nahi thi. there might be many with UMAR 55 ki and DIL BACHPAN KA.

You are right Rajnish ji but you may sometime agree that we all behave differently with different people according to various factors such as our relationship, post/position/rank, age/peer group, gender, economic/social status, physical appearance/ability, behavioral pattern, intellectualism/knowledge, residential/operational zone and may be more. To know everything about a person on this virtual forum seems difficult but in case some of the above criterion are known to us our addressing to each other will definitely improve and I think that makes the difference.Secondly, respect works on Newtons third law of motion.Give respect & take it back (some time with interest). What i have experienced that even in our offices/workplaces we address senior/older people by adding JI to their name even though they may be our subordinates/sahayaks and that enhances interpersonal relationship & improves working environment.

So the age seniority is a very significant criteria to decide initial addressing. Further in case a senior/aged person does not behave according to his age/seniority then he needs to be held responsible for unpleasant consequences if any. In my opinion the above applies here and everywhere. The idea is to exchange/share our knowledge/experience/culture in respectable, humorous and harmonious atmosphere.

With Thanks.
JS