Weight of beauty ..... !!

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gaganjat said:
Your question is the answer itself !

lol...definitely ! If inner beauty is there its not gonna disappear but physical beauty will ....so let the inner beauty take a back seat and exploit the physical beauty first:D
.....just talkin bot the combination !
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ha ha. here speaks the beautiful mind...good wit mate.
 
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Beauty is more associated with women.Every one likes and admires a beautiful face at the very outset of things and certainly a pre-requisite towards any further initiation of any substantial dialogs towards ultimate liking/rejection[like it or lump it].....What happens in long run will certainly be decided by the inner strength of character and goodness...but on the spot its the outward beauty for sure.


For men to men it is different all together[may be some percentage of women too would like to do the same].....They vibe mostly on the behavior pattern of each other.......Truthfulness,dependability and loyalty etc count a lot...face does not matter at all.
 
well,,inner beauty is good....i mean hell ,if u wanna live with the person all ur life u want them to be decent.
but outer beauty is what pulls you to them first...
outer beauty can be devided in 2 parts
1. face (50%)
2. body(50%)
this is true for most ppl....
i mean hell if a girl has a nice defined physique and a nice face ,,i wud atleast wanna know her a lil more.
but yeah ,,if she looks nice and internally shez bad...for me EGO sucks,,,so if shez egoistic..ill be instantly turned off....
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however for women handsomeness takes a backseat when considering a partner,
they want sum1 consistent,successful and more importantly "shud treat a woman right"
.so if a guy is rich,good natured and doesnt look very bad...girls wud prolly go ******s for him ...i was told this by one of my female friend whoz taking phychology at uni.
 
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shashiverma said:
I am a bit struck at the first line....Weight???.... I do not think that one can weigh beauty....Beauty give some kind of joy and pleasure and one can not think of weighing it.
Different people call different things as beautiful depending on their perception or what fascinates them.
People say Tajmahal is beautiful...wat makes it beautiful......symmetrical structure, white marble or the associated love story. May be all three of them....some say its beautiful just because they look at the structure, some find it beautiful thinking about the brains gone into constructing it, some find it beautiful bcoz this is unique, some find it beautiful bcoz of the love they see behind the constrution.
They all are right in their own sense. Its ofcourse beautiful but in totally different way for each of them.
A small dog on the street with white long hairs.....i find it really beautiful and so I noticed it.....that fascinates me. I move ahead on my way....Ofcourse I found the dog beautiful.....so...
Physical beauty is surely one of the beauty one can enjoy very much like the beautiful monuments, beautiful creations of nature. There is no harm in that.
Now if one has to make a comparision between external beauty and beauty of soul, then i would say its totally a personal taste and choice. One may have eye for external beauty so only see them, someone else may eye for beauty of soul and they find it more fascinating and enjoyable than the physical appearances. But both of them are right in their own frame. They have to live with the consequences of their choices and will pay for it accordingly.
For instance someone with blue eyes was complemented by two persons that you have beautiful eyes. One say that your eyes are blue in color and they are unique...they look beautiful.....Other says....your eyes speaks volume ..they reflect your soul.......
Now is it justified to say that only one of them is better than other?? They both are right. They have their own choices. We can not make them look the way we want.
And as far as nature of person is concerned it comes into picture depending on the grounds of being together.
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Melodious words indeed :)

Well, beauty cant be given weight as such in real or exact terms, but many a times it is given weight, like the people generally say "Wo usse sunder hai" "Wo uske muqaable utni achi nahi dikhati" & the likes. People carry their own weighing machines many a times and do weigh this so relative adjective in comparable terms. An inclination for beauty is quite instintive and do depend on many a factors as have been beautifully enumerated in the above quote, but at times people do act fanatic for beauty. This may be owing to their own perception and way of looking at things, but at times it says silently to ones falling on 'lesser scale of beauty' that they lack a quality, a quality which can only be bestowed upon by the Almighty by virtue of birth but owing to which they will be judged each day, compared each day, & God knows what not ! The reason I started this thread was my thought provoking voyage through some really disgusting thoughts of people I came across. Its but natural to like beauty, but its not natural to like just beauty, overlooking the other very important side of a person, his inner self. People must atleast have some regards to the human face of a person.:)
 
shwetadhaka said:
Melodious words indeed :)

but at times people do act fanatic for beauty. At times it says silently to ones falling on 'lesser scale of beauty' that they lack a quality, a quality which can only be bestowed upon by the Almighty by virtue of birth

but owing to which they will be judged each day, compared each day,

The reason I started this thread was my thought provoking voyage through some really disgusting thoughts of people I came across. Its but natural to like beauty, but its not natural to like just beauty, overlooking the other very important side of a person, his inner self. People must atleast have some regards to the human face of a person.:)
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I agree with you shweta and i do understand the point you are making. Everynow and then we come across people who have eye only for external beauty. But do they really matter in the long run???
But everything has a positive and negative side.
In fact a person with external beauty and good soul also have to pay the price. They are always sorrounded by people who admire simply their apprearences. They really have to work hard to find people who can understand and admire the beauty of their soul.
So in that sense people who do not carry the so called physical beauty are on the better side. People who are close to them are there because they understand their soul and do not look at them on the basis of what they were created as.
And as far as the comments of other person is concerned...how one take them totally depends on the person. As I mentioned earlier about the beautiful eyes of the person..its for the person to judge what matter to them.....a person who only look at the appearences of her eyes which were created by almighty or the person who look at the beauty of her soul......thats totally a personal choice and a wise person know it well what to go for.
 
Well! Considering beauty as a book, I believe in the quote that " Never judge a book by its cover"

and secondly beauty lies in the eyes of beholder!:)

Cheers!
 
Hi!

HI! PHYSICAL BEAUTY AS WELL AS INNER BEAUTY BOTH ARE IMPORTANT BUT INNER BEAUTY CARRIES MORE WEIGHTAGE COZ IT REMAINS WITH US PERMANENTLY.I WILL RATE AS60/40 . 60 TO IB & 40 TO PB.REGARDS!
shwetadhaka said:
Freinds, I m starting with a question........... does inner beauty takes a back seat when physical beauty spreads its charisma........... ?

Well, in our lives we do come across many a type of persons, but some catch our eyes instantly:) ....... to put up in other words....... we get impressed by some persons inadvertantly owing to the charm of their personality........ and also at times by the confidence they carry on their face....... and also at times after just listening to the melody of their thoughts!! Depends............. but the question I wanna ask is, does inner beauty comes after physical beauty.............PRACTICALLY SPEAKING !! ........... coz I have also seen many a people running whole life after physical beauty !! For them........ inner beauty might also be appreciable but they just cant resist!! So freinds.......... do enlighten me with ur beautiful words:p U may also rate the inner and physical beauty on a scale of 10 !!

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humanity starts from beauty.physical beauyy is more important then inner beauty.beleve it or not it matters always.
 
>> Well, comprehensive question, looks simple yet answerable.Physical beauty is not aphrodiastic in longer terms because it never has been.Physical beauty starts its scale from 100 and gradually goes down longer.Its market is big but on egg shell.Inner beauty yes starts from zero n go to infinity with its virtues.Like Socrates said ' Know Thyself'.Very simple but really challange when you see inner demons never at truce eating you out like cancer.Physical beauty is not charismatic.Charismatic is inner beauty its more reliable, always growing.



>>>> Self, Identity and personality are entirely different parts of a human being.The main aspect of personality is one's confident image.More confidence Ultimate beautiful.Though Identity is like handling oneself in the toughest situations of life's drama.Self is much deeper which is hard to show or explain. Its just the way you are wired.Physical beauty can be faked but inner beauty is constant peace in joy.You dont need its validation from external enviornment.

One person chooses the scale of physical/inner beauty with his/her mental evolution.Very much applicable in selecting one's biological mate.Once again Women/men do not deceive men. We use women/men to deceive ourselves.



I do believe more physical beauties are self-destructive because they put more emphasis in out appearnce which generally is fake.Beauty is in actions, never in words..Period.
 
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Physical beauty is temporary and transient while the beauty of the soul is eternal it is a high which has no coming down, We who follow the sanatan dharam or the eternal religion never go for transient things; it is only in western socities that personality is more important than character.Oratory is preferred to inner silence and peace. We should not blindly copy the west but stick to our time tested values. The eyes of the person are the windows to his soul. I will go for something permanent anyday anytime:p
 
Frnds after reading all ths post ....Its depend on situation ..As in our community we believe more in arrange marriage ...in that case you dont have time to judge a person's inner beauty the only thing u can notice is Physical Beauty. (aur ek khas baat ..humare gharon mein hota kaise hai...3 ya 4 lady..humari Ma ..Chachi ya bua etc ek sath jayengi larki dekhne (and same can be from other side as well) ...larki kitni lambi hai...nain nakhs kaise hain...aur jab tak larki unke samne baithi rahegi..wo bechari sharm se ya kuchh bhi laga lo ..bolegi nahi...to chachi ya bua etc ...kahengi "Hey dekha kitni sharif bhi thi" . As they got impressed by external beauty ..to unhen wo sharif bhi lagi..Lekin agar sunder nahi lage to..wo unko sharif bhi nahi lagti....tab unke khayalat kuchh aise hote..." Hey shakal ki to bhundi thi ye...har dekhe bhi kaise thi...". )
Even if u leave all the matter of arrange marriage on a guy/girl ...they will also go with physical beauty...coz u cant judge a person in few hours or in few days.

Now come to the some other situation ..like if somebody (larka ho ya larki) looking for a friendship kind of relation they wud go for a Physical beauty.(Time paas karna hai..so sunder/handsome to honi/hona hee chahiye na).

Thats why physical Beauty is on front seat.

But the basic need of a relation is understanding ..its a part of inner beauty and nobody can judge that in few days or hours.
 
rajeevkadyan said:
Even if u leave all the matter of arrange marriage on a guy/girl ...they will also go with physical beauty...coz u cant judge a person in few hours or in few days.

Now come to the some other situation ..like if somebody (larka ho ya larki) looking for a friendship kind of relation they wud go for a Physical beauty.(Time paas karna hai..so sunder/handsome to honi/hona hee chahiye na).

Thats why physical Beauty is on front seat.

But the basic need of a relation is understanding ..its a part of inner beauty and nobody can judge that in few days or hours.
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Vry much agreed
 
hmmm ... read all posts but again got a doubt... what contxt r we talking abt...
well for me if i see then physical appereance doesn matter at all for friendship aur any other relation too... but whn i see the same regarding life partner then its difficult to digest that physique/beauty doen matter... at that time i feel the gal shud b beautiful... doen mean aishwarya but kuch toh honi he hahiye...

The sam question to u too... dekhne mein agar suroopan khaa ya tun tun type par inner beauty bahut hai ... shadi karoge boass ??? kitne hai aise naujawan... same to gals... ladka dil ka bahut achha hai par dekhne mein cartoon .. chalegi kya inner beauty... honest answers plz.... khair ladkiyon k baare mein kuch nahi keh sakta... caring paring hona chahiye phir chaahe gadha hi kyun na hoo:p:D:)
 
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Inner beauty Bhagwan nahi dete, wo time ke saath khud change hoti hoti hai, wo hum beautify bhi kar sakte hai, wo circumstances & surroundings par depend karti hai...

...But outer beauty to Bhagwan he dete hain, jisko jaisa bana diya bas bana diya, usme hi khush rahna chahiye



ofcourse jo dikhta nahi hai uska importance hi jyada hota hai, because we don't know what's in someone's mind ...at least not completely

Philanthopy is one example of inner beauty
 
dkumars said:
hmmm ... read all posts but again got a doubt... what contxt r we talking abt...
well for me if i see then physical appereance doesn matter at all for friendship aur any other relation too... but whn i see the same regarding life partner then its difficult to digest that physique/beauty doen matter... at that time i feel the gal shud b beautiful... doen mean aishwarya but kuch toh honi he hahiye...

The sam question to u too... dekhne mein agar suroopan khaa ya tun tun type par inner beauty bahut hai ... shadi karoge boass ??? kitne hai aise naujawan... same to gals... ladka dil ka bahut achha hai par dekhne mein cartoon .. chalegi kya inner beauty... honest answers plz.... khair ladkiyon k baare mein kuch nahi keh sakta... caring paring hona chahiye phir chaahe gadha hi kyun na hoo:p:D:)
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Well, u r being genuinely practical, no denials about that ! Who will not wish to be with the best looking person ! Everyone will obviously be happy to see a perfect looking face around. What I opine is if its a case of marriage, then also a person must of course look for someone who can match his or her looks too, and this too must be to an extent so that if you know someone is a real gem, then that person can just get a few higher marks in this rating process ! Isnt it ! Marriages today have become a rating issue, a perfect analysis is made and finally a rating is arrived at considering the overall package being offered !! So, at least keep some higher points for the qualities :)
 
Inner beauty vs physical beauty

well Sweta ji, i think that inner beauty is the real beauty and if you beleive in god than you must love his creations. every face is unique and a brilliant work done by nature. if someone is just looking for his/her selfishness then the question arises of physical beauty. if i have rate then i rate inner beauty 10/10 and physical beauty 2/10.
because somehow i don't like showbiz
 
Gud Ques..

As i think physical beauty attracts more ......
but physical beauty can be changed bt inner beauty cant change by any1........physical beauty is not lifelong bt inner beauty is alwayz stay.........
 
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