Why do we shout in anger?

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Best possible way to vent out anger/frustration is to shout in open..like khule aasman ke neeche...but remember ghar ke chat pe jaake nahi..otherwise padosi bhot marenge :p.....

Very nice words from you ..Dahiya Ji


teotia ji ......este badhiya t garare karan ki kehdeta .................eb rukee maran khtr 100 koos door jana padega ...............


i think .. u need to indulge yourself in something else......or give your self 10-15min alone to calm down ..........
 
yeah viv i think we should go to jatland and start replying on any hot and happening thread and write some anaap shanaap.....which will result in to an infraction which will eventually cool all the anger.i think you will surely give it a try or may be have already tried it.
teotia ji ......este badhiya t garare karan ki kehdeta .................eb rukee maran khtr 100 koos door jana padega ...............


i think .. u need to indulge yourself in something else......or give your self 10-15min alone to calm down ..........
 
yeah viv i think we should go to jatland and start replying on any hot and happening thread and write some anaap shanaap.....which will result in to an infraction which will eventually cool all the anger.i think you will surely give it a try or may be have already tried it.



hahah di dont try this at jatland it wll cut your points & u get infraction also .........save your points in every state ,,
 
I believe, suppression of any emotion can be harmful to our body and mind.
We all must have observed or heard that it is always better to make or let cry the person under shock of grief.
Same goes with the anger and letting it go is better than hold on it.
Recently, I have read an article on 'Career Advancement' that had this interesting piece of advise for advancement of one's career:

"Letting your anger out rather than bottling it up could actually help you advance your career. An extensive study reveals that those who keep their emotions in check are more likely to find their career are stalled than those who say what they think.
But before you launch into an office temper tantrum be warned: the researcher noticed a benifit only in those who could expressed their frustration tactfully and costructively. Almost a third of subjects told the study that the confrontation helped them to see their own fault."

So look for a solitary corner to shout and let your anger out and keep the distance between hearts as minimal as possible!

Cheers!
 
One very crucial thing to remember is that when angered or when feeling a lot of hurt and pain , there is a huge opportunity to know "yourself" better and to "improve" yourself. That's the time to know your "resource base" ! :) That's the time you add on to your patience levels , your listening qualities , your endurance limits! Keep a check on yourself and you can see yourself turning better.


And may be this can help a lot! ( I remind myself of this whenever I think I have had enough and can't take it more !! ) :

Bahut gayi thodi rahi , vyaakul man mat hoye
Dheeraj sabka mitra hai , kari kamaaye na khoye! :)

Gives me that lil bit more to keep myself calm and composed.

Anil, good one and very true it really helps to know yourself and improvement definitely comes. I am happy that you deeply understand the topic and your contribution is valuable.
There have been good suggestions which will benefit all.
Deswal ji you are right, I have already said that suppression of anger is more 'harmful' than venting it out.

Ritu's suggestion is worth considering, there should be one special section on JL where you can go and vent out you anger/frustration without fear of getting infraction/ban. Moderators can be requested to provide immunity to one such thread.
 
Once happened with me and i was just mad as i was provoked by someone, it had upset me for days and since then practiced bit control on anger.

As Anil said....exhausting by exercising helps to great deal:) But should vent out if possible, whether by talking/ thinking/ arguing/ shouting:)
As per the doctors anger is very harmful for the heart and brain, so the best way is to avoid anger. I was watching a program today and the doctor said that whenever you are angry go away from the cause of anger for a while,because if you remain at the scene anger will increase.
Amit, I think your action is already practical. One should not become the cause of anger for others.
The doctors also say that suppression of anger is more harmful than venting it out.

Sachin you are really cool, rather I see all persons participating in this thread are gems of JL and their behavior has been nice.

'Mods/Admin: Please send this to all jatland members....much needed here..'


Satinder, very nice suggestion. The mods have read this thread and removed all unrelated posts. I thank them and all of you for taking this thread in the right spirit.

Keep the distance between your hearts to the minimum.
 
Once happened with me and i was just mad as i was provoked by someone, it had upset me for days and since then practiced bit control on anger.

As Anil said....exhausting by exercising helps to great deal:) But should vent out if possible, whether by talking/ thinking/ arguing/ shouting:)

dont you feel like shouting when you see yourself in mirror..... hein didi :p

or may be arguing/talking with self......thinking about thyself ?? :D
 
No Keshav....i don't....as i look at your pics for that reason....anger is also like a PLEASURE FOR SOME....You know:p

I'm not upset with myself....I love myself....i think its high time you should also start loving yourself....jai time bach jaa to:p;)
dont you feel like shouting when you see yourself in mirror..... hein didi :p

or may be arguing/talking with self......thinking about thyself ?? :D
 
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Infact Anger Management is also an Art especially its an important and integral part of our Humon Emotions,,,,,,in our day to day life we come accross so many things which are not to our liking or not as per our satisfaction,,,,,,,

And with this the conflict situations start resulting in causing people to get angry and loos control of the balance state of mind,,,,,,

I am doing some research on Anger Management based on my personal experience and based on the feedback and input of my freind circle,,,,,,my first aim is to imbibe Anger Management techniques myself,,,,which I have already started practicing but there is a long way to go. My aim is that the situation of me getting annoyed with some one should not reach that stage where I loose patience and become angry causing ill effect on my health.
 
Ballu Ji mujhe bhi batana please....lekin meri problem hai mai gussey mein bilkul chup ho ati hoon:ocant shout:confused:
Infact Anger Management is also an Art especially its an important and integral part of our Humon Emotions,,,,,,in our day to day life we come accross so many things which are not to our liking or not as per our satisfaction,,,,,,,

And with this the conflict situations start resulting in causing people to get angry and loos control of the balance state of mind,,,,,,

I am doing some research on Anger Management based on my personal experience and based on the feedback and input of my freind circle,,,,,,my first aim is to imbibe Anger Management techniques myself,,,,which I have already started practicing but there is a long way to go. My aim is that the situation of me getting annoyed with some one should not reach that stage where I loose patience and become angry causing ill effect on my health.
 
off topic per time out pls

Rightly said Sachin Ji...."SELF-LOVE IS ETERNAL LOVE" and it doesn't mean we are selfish and cant love others:)


Madam jatland tai marksheet kadhwa lyo .. 99% activity sai ... pvr aale free ticket dewain sain jiske lumbar 80% tai uper hon ... :D:D:D
 
Infact Anger Management is also an Art especially its an important and integral part of our Humon Emotions,,,,,,in our day to day life we come accross so many things which are not to our liking or not as per our satisfaction,,,,,,,

And with this the conflict situations start resulting in causing people to get angry and loos control of the balance state of mind,,,,,,

I am doing some research on Anger Management based on my personal experience and based on the feedback and input of my freind circle,,,,,,my first aim is to imbibe Anger Management techniques myself,,,,which I have already started practicing but there is a long way to go. My aim is that the situation of me getting annoyed with some one should not reach that stage where I loose patience and become angry causing ill effect on my health.

Sachin, this may help you in your research:
I came across a piece on anger management, but be careful before following the advice, it could turn the other way round also.

Anger Management

When you occasionally have a really bad day, and you just need to
take it out on someone,

don't take it out on someone you know, take it out on someone you
don't know.

I was sitting at my desk when I remembered a phone call I'd forgotten
to make.

I found the number and dialed it.

A man answered, saying 'Hello.'

I politely said, 'This is Mark.

Could I please speak with Robyn Carter?'

Suddenly a manic voice yelled out in my ear 'Get the right **** ing
number! and the phone was slammed down on me.

I couldn't believe that anyone could be so rude.

When I tracked down Robyn's correct number to call her, I found that I
had accidentally transposed the last two digits.

After hanging up with her, I decided to call the 'wrong' number again.

When the same guy answered the phone, I yelled 'You're an ******* !'
and hung up. I wrote his number down with the word '*******' next to
it, and put it in my desk drawer. Every couple of weeks, when I was
paying bills or had a really bad day, I'd call him up and yell,
'You're an *******!'

It always cheered me up.

When Caller ID was introduced, I thought my therapeutic *******
calling would have to stop.

So, I called his number and said, 'Hi, this is John Smith from the
telephone company.

I'm calling to see if you're familiar with our Caller ID Program?'

He yelled 'NO!' and slammed down the phone.

I quickly called him back and said, 'That's because you're an
*******!' and hung up.

One day I was at the store, getting ready to pull into a parking spot.
Some guy in a black BMW cut me off and pulled into the spot I had
patiently waited for. I hit the horn and yelled that I'd been waiting
for that spot, but The idiot ignored me. I noticed a 'For Sale ' sign
in his back window, so I wrote down his number.

A couple of days later, right after calling the first ******* (I had
his number on speed dial),

I thought that I'd better, call the BMW *******, too.

I said, 'Is this the man with the black BMW for sale?'

He said, 'Yes, it is..'

I asked, 'Can you tell me where I can see it?'

He said, 'Yes, I live at 34 Oaktree Blvd , in Fairfax . It's a yellow
rambler, and the car's parked right out in front.'

I asked, 'What's your name?' He said, 'My name is Don Hansen.'

I asked, 'When's a good time to catch you, Don?'

He said, 'I'm home every evening after five.'

I said, 'Listen, Don, can I tell you something?'

He said, 'Yes?'

I said, 'Don, you're an *******!'

Then I hung up, and added his number to my speed dial, too. Now, when
I had a problem, I had two *******s to call.

Then I came up with an idea.

I called ******* #1.

He said, 'Hello.'

I said, 'You're an *******!'

(But I didn't hang up.)

He asked, 'Are you still there?'

I said, 'Yeah.'

He screamed, ' Stop calling me!'

I said, 'Make me.'

He asked, 'Who are you?'

I said, 'My name is Don Hansen.'

He said, 'Yeah? Where do you live?'

I said, '*******, I live at 34 Oaktree Blvd , in Fairfax, a yellow
rambler,

I have a black Beamer parked in front.'

He said, 'I'm coming over right now, Don.

And you had better start saying your prayers.'

I said, 'Yeah, like I'm really scared, *******,' and hung up.

Then I called ******* No. 2.

He said, 'Hello?'

I said, 'Hello, ******* .'

He yelled, 'If I ever find out who you are...'

I said, 'You'll what?'

He exclaimed, 'I'll kick your ass,'

I answered, 'Well, *******, here's your chance.

I'm coming over right now.'

Then I hung up and immediately called the police, saying that I lived
at 34 Oaktree Blvd , in Fairfax , and that my gay lover was on his way
over to kill me.

Then I called Channel 9 News about the gang war going down on Oaktree
Blvd. In Fairfax .

I quickly got into my car and headed over to Fairfax . I got there
just in time to watch two *******s beating the crap out of each other
in front of six cop cars, an overhead news helicopter and surrounded
by a news crew.

NOW I feel much better

Anger management works!

 
Wow uncle ji..
kya nuskha diya hai anger management ka...
Agar India main follow kiya ne yo kise ne, te bheeter ho jyaga er police aaley saara anger kaadh dengey...:p:p
Sachin, this may help you in your research:
I came across a piece on anger management, but be careful before following the advice, it could turn the other way round also.

Anger Management

When you occasionally have a really bad day, and you just need to
take it out on someone,

don't take it out on someone you know, take it out on someone you
don't know.

I was sitting at my desk when I remembered a phone call I'd forgotten
to make.

I found the number and dialed it.

A man answered, saying 'Hello.'

I politely said, 'This is Mark.

Could I please speak with Robyn Carter?'

Suddenly a manic voice yelled out in my ear 'Get the right **** ing
number! and the phone was slammed down on me.

I couldn't believe that anyone could be so rude.

When I tracked down Robyn's correct number to call her, I found that I
had accidentally transposed the last two digits.

After hanging up with her, I decided to call the 'wrong' number again.

When the same guy answered the phone, I yelled 'You're an ******* !'
and hung up. I wrote his number down with the word '*******' next to
it, and put it in my desk drawer. Every couple of weeks, when I was
paying bills or had a really bad day, I'd call him up and yell,
'You're an *******!'

It always cheered me up.

When Caller ID was introduced, I thought my therapeutic *******
calling would have to stop.

So, I called his number and said, 'Hi, this is John Smith from the
telephone company.

I'm calling to see if you're familiar with our Caller ID Program?'

He yelled 'NO!' and slammed down the phone.

I quickly called him back and said, 'That's because you're an
*******!' and hung up.

One day I was at the store, getting ready to pull into a parking spot.
Some guy in a black BMW cut me off and pulled into the spot I had
patiently waited for. I hit the horn and yelled that I'd been waiting
for that spot, but The idiot ignored me. I noticed a 'For Sale ' sign
in his back window, so I wrote down his number.

A couple of days later, right after calling the first ******* (I had
his number on speed dial),

I thought that I'd better, call the BMW *******, too.

I said, 'Is this the man with the black BMW for sale?'

He said, 'Yes, it is..'

I asked, 'Can you tell me where I can see it?'

He said, 'Yes, I live at 34 Oaktree Blvd , in Fairfax . It's a yellow
rambler, and the car's parked right out in front.'

I asked, 'What's your name?' He said, 'My name is Don Hansen.'

I asked, 'When's a good time to catch you, Don?'

He said, 'I'm home every evening after five.'

I said, 'Listen, Don, can I tell you something?'

He said, 'Yes?'

I said, 'Don, you're an *******!'

Then I hung up, and added his number to my speed dial, too. Now, when
I had a problem, I had two *******s to call.

Then I came up with an idea.

I called ******* #1.

He said, 'Hello.'

I said, 'You're an *******!'

(But I didn't hang up.)

He asked, 'Are you still there?'

I said, 'Yeah.'

He screamed, ' Stop calling me!'

I said, 'Make me.'

He asked, 'Who are you?'

I said, 'My name is Don Hansen.'

He said, 'Yeah? Where do you live?'

I said, '*******, I live at 34 Oaktree Blvd , in Fairfax, a yellow
rambler,

I have a black Beamer parked in front.'

He said, 'I'm coming over right now, Don.

And you had better start saying your prayers.'

I said, 'Yeah, like I'm really scared, *******,' and hung up.

Then I called ******* No. 2.

He said, 'Hello?'

I said, 'Hello, ******* .'

He yelled, 'If I ever find out who you are...'

I said, 'You'll what?'

He exclaimed, 'I'll kick your ass,'

I answered, 'Well, *******, here's your chance.

I'm coming over right now.'

Then I hung up and immediately called the police, saying that I lived
at 34 Oaktree Blvd , in Fairfax , and that my gay lover was on his way
over to kill me.

Then I called Channel 9 News about the gang war going down on Oaktree
Blvd. In Fairfax .

I quickly got into my car and headed over to Fairfax . I got there
just in time to watch two *******s beating the crap out of each other
in front of six cop cars, an overhead news helicopter and surrounded
by a news crew.

NOW I feel much better

Anger management works!
 
Anger Management

When you occasionally have a really bad day, and you just need to
take it out on someone,

don't take it out on someone you know, take it out on someone you
don't know.

I was sitting at my desk when I remembered a phone call I'd forgotten
to make.
.
.
.
.
.
NOW I feel much better

Anger management works!

Hahahahahah
Anger management with a Fight managaement :)
Absolutely hilarious.
 
Sir....i want to say so much but just one word- Hillarious:D

I've an incident to share....some jerk used to call for "FRIENDSHIP":pand after many humble denials when he didn't stop i saved his name as Kutta and stopped picking up:obut he started calling from different nos. so list went on like Kutta No-01/02/03 and so long that i stopped answering unknown numbers. I got rid of him by asking- Ke tu nyu bata t apni haddi kitt tudwana pasand karega Guddgamey mai akk Jind mai, he was shocked to know how i knew he belongs to Jind and never called. But there are still some very old dogs....my fav:D
Sachin, this may help you in your research:
I came across a piece on anger management, but be careful before following the advice, it could turn the other way round also.

Anger Management

When you occasionally have a really bad day, and you just need to
take it out on someone,

don't take it out on someone you know, take it out on someone you
don't know.

I quickly got into my car and headed over to Fairfax . I got there
just in time to watch two *******s beating the crap out of each other
in front of six cop cars, an overhead news helicopter and surrounded
by a news crew.

NOW I feel much better

Anger management works!

 
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