hmm..........
nikitadhaiya said:
Well i strongly feel tht once a person is born in a family he/she has a duty to follow the norms of the family and one must not be selfish. Its not the Q of 'my life', its abt everybodys life. In India there is nothing as such 'my life' , its associated with many lives. So just for the sake of one life many cannot be left ignored. and wat ur calling ' samaj ki izzat' or 'nak ka sawal' is not a SMALL THING , its earned through generations. When we r born in a family we r given the family name, identity, so many relationships, place in society so we OWE a lot to the family and some sacrifices for all this makes no big deal. if one cannot upgrade the name of the family one has no right to degrade it as well. one should never do anysuch thing tht makes ur parents or ur family embarressed in there own society coz tht RESPECT in society is all tht they have earned in there entire life. I may be sounding somebody frm 1950's but just once try to think frm parents point of view and u will feel the difference.
dear all...
i was trying to keep away frm this thread at all... bt cudnt stop myself to say smthing now....
frst of all its jus hopeless effort of shobit to sort out ny kinda help to those poor guys who r suffering like hell in their lives...... u tell shobit kya itne suggestion milll liye tanne aade jatland pee ,, ekk bhi tu implement kar paya kee unki life main ........??? i knw nahi shayad....
bt i m hapy tht u tring for gd cause.........
thn smone comes out of his own nd speaks tht all rubbish like making faces in frnt of the guys who comes to see the grl... walking aaddii tedhii..... uff.. how disgusting ... can u jus imagine it happening to ny grl knwn to u... MAJAAK BANA DIYAA CHORII KAA TUMNEY......
thn i saw another finely written post nd worth replying by nikita dahiya..... i agree tht we shall have all respect for our parents n all... the sacrifices done by thm cant be paid back in any case.... bt nikita do u really think wt u really said can make the lives better???
after all wt our parents nd we r fighting for ??? for smooth nd happy life in future... rite? parents knowing tht the kids r not happy with the situation thn they shall step out of it because its gona make things hard for both of thm..... a girl who is married nt to her own choice of a guy forcibly by the parents is sure to loose all tht so called respect nd luv for their parents frm tht very day ..... she will feel tht mere parents sey acha to shayad ye banda hoga jisse main shaadi kar rahi hun jo meri har baat maanegaa........nd i don think tht she will ever visit her parents with tht charm ....
now wts the situation u see.......................... parents has done their job of marring their daughter wow... nd feeling very proud nd listening to the so called SAMAJ tht CHAUDHARY SAAB ,, UTAR GYAA KAANDHYAAN KAA BOJJH AAJ TEYY...??? nd chaudhary saab iss nodding his head quietly responding to tht samaj........ uff how disgusting...... ........ kya bachoon ki shaadi karna hi ek duty hai parents kii?? arr hai bhii tee issi duty nibhaai te kee nibhaaii........... chorii te romtii chodd dii sadaa khattarr....... unka ke bigddyaa ..... they r nt even bothered abt her after the day she is away frm their home.....bt tht grl is leading an unwanted life bt with a mask of smile on to her face all the time...........
ANKITA JI AGAR YOO SAMAJ ISS TARAH EKK CHORRII NEE RUWAA KEE RAAJII SAII NAA ARR UNN PARENTSS KII NAAK UNKII CHORII KI KHUSSHI TE BADDII SAII TEE MAIN NAA MAANTA ISSEE SAMAJ NEYY........ARR THAA KEE FOONK DYOO ISSEE NEE...........
iss samaj kaa koi aadmi chorri te mill kee kadee nu na poochee ak beti kaisii hai..........arr kyun poocchhee ......... uske father nee ee na poochii tee yo samaj ki key laagi waa chorii......
by saing all this m nt tring to give the message tht grls shall boycott their parents in every way..... bt if there is sm problem in the conclusion then i think tht ladder shall b changed tht moment only..... else both gonaa fall for sure........ the parents shall try to listen to their child first nd then look up to tht so called samaj .........
tanne bataaongi phone pe .... hahahahah datt jara