Wahi to baat boli hai mane kee aisee nobat hee na aaye kee aapka dimaag extreme soch par chala jaye.
Another example – When a manager is hiring today an employee, he is having a straight thought that if he does not like him he will terminate him. Whether it is west or in India. A length of an employment today is 2-5 years max. West is even worst.
This had got nothing to do with good/bad economy. When you have that opinion then normally you end up terminating. Exactly same thing applies to marriage also. People say we are going to see if it goes well. Your opinion drives your mind and changes your emotions accordingly.
What I mean is Social drinking may not be bad but most of the alcoholics are born out of social drinking. So lets not touch it at first place otherwise we may have to open another thread at
www.jatland.com about the treatment of the alcoloic issues.
The compatibility issues have been there since the universe existed. My main point is not to think about extreme steps. If a husband and wife has decided that no-matter what we have raise our kids then that will happen. They can leave peacefully with and without separation and raise kids provided they that intention.
That intention comes from sanskaar etc. Again, exceptions are always there.
Two neighbour can live happily w/o taking talking if they are incompatible. At the same one can be haavi and argue everyday.
These things were there earlier also but the volume has gone high. This is point I want to raise.
Agar aapko aub bhee nahi samajh aaya to batao. Mere paas ek aur dusara rasta hai samjhane ka.
Regards.