Lalu on Love

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RK Uncle meri imagination toh kuch aur kehti hai. ;)

Aap is topic per bahut stress dey rahe ho koi....Koi junior nurse toh nahin phassa li....ha ha ha :D

Just joking so pls dont mind.
 
antil-sunpatiya said:
RK Uncle meri imagination toh kuch aur kehti hai. ;)

Aap is topic per bahut stress dey rahe ho koi....Koi junior nurse toh nahin phassa li....ha ha ha :D

Just joking so pls dont mind.
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hahhaa...kyoon bhai ? why not a junior doctor ?.... standard kyun gira raha hai abhi se....LOL

RK^2
 
devdahiya said:
Ha...ha...ha...ha...ha........iss chhori nei jarrur bullaiyo RK bhai jaan na tei kassar reh jyaggi...Wa bebey Poonam...challa sei.
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hahhahaa...lagta hai professor nikal gaya aur ub mujhe gadhe par baithane ki tayyari ho rahee hai...........hihihihiihihihihihi...

RK^2
 
Raj Rathee bhaisaab ko Pranam!
well this is Rathee bhai's wild card entry!!! ;) :p

Btw, Im very much agree with Rathee bhaisaab,
well, I wud only say jab dil aaya gadhi save for here a chick, ;) to pari kya cheez hai :D

aur bollywood ke gaane aise hi nahi banne, like 'Pyaar kiya nahi jaata ho jata hai, dil diya nahi jaata kho jaata hai' aur prof aur uski student ki itni maar khaane ka baad bhi himmat ka raaj 'pyaar karne wale kabhi darte nahi, aur jo darte hein woh pyar karte nahi' :)

Btw, ye kisi kanoon mein hahi likha ki teacher apni student se byah nahi kar sakta...I've lotta examples of teacher-student's luv become arrange marriages :)

so dont be double std & be open minded & liberal thoughtful!

Rock on
Jit
raj_rathee said:
Hmmm... Very typical responses from the Jatland caretakers
of morality.

The prof. has every right to love and lust [Bhai thaara ji na karta ho
tae tham sar ke bal khade ho ka mantra jaap kar lo! Lekin uss bechare ke
pacche kyun pad rahe so. Main tae kahoon soon jis aadmi mein lust na
ho woh tae khaam khaan dharti pe janghan gheran laag ra sae. Mahari
kade ya haalat ho ja toh please koi goli maar diyo.]

Everyone is a free human being and has a right to make such
choices. The female involved is no kid, and is quite openly with
him. So all that crap about teacher-student relationship is a bunch
of Bihari poop.

It is sad to see people so quickly pass judgement on personal lives.
Who knows anything here ? For all we know the wife might be some
goddamn slut who the poor guy has painfully tolerated for all these
years. Maybe she is a man's worst nightmare come alive. Maybe instead,
of hanging the guy we should be worshiping him for all he has endured.
Maybe she is suffering from cancer, and he isn't getting any (aka
Hindi filmi style)...The possibilities are endless.

The guy's face was blackened and in all probability he was beaten up too.
What sort of screwed up civil society
do we come from? Is this how we deal with issues in that "fateecharsthan"
called Hindustan ? Anyone can go ahead and do anything they feel like? Kaanoon
ka kya hua ? I think the woman and her relatives should be thrown into
jail for such atrocities. Is there absolutely no respect for human diginity
in that stink hole ?

[As an aside to Sumit Dahiya. Dude, You dream of a place without
governments. Toh India mein Bhai kya kami hai. Wahan har kooch chalta hai.
Har koi aadmi, jiske baska hai, apni private sarkar bana raha hai.]

I don't want to make this prof. sound like a hero or anything. But
I do think we should respect him as a free human being who gets to make
such choices in life. Smart choice or stupid choice...it is his for the making.

I think at a social level there are a number of things that can be
done to deal with such issues and personal circumstances.

First of all getting a divorce there is difficult. Make it easy. People
should have the right to get out of unhappy situations. Personally I think
that yeh Shaadi ka funda hi bakwaas hai...but this isn't about my philosophies.

The guy may have some financial responsibilities to his dependents (his son,
maybe his wife as well). He should be expected/made to fulfill those. But
he should certainly be allowed to move on with his life in the direction he
wants it to go.
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Won't comment on morality but this reminds me "Disgrace" by Coetzee, where 50 years old professors in South Africa falls in love (wont say love, you know what I mean) with his student and indulge in biased grading too... then university finds out and his life is ruined... Its not wise to fall in love with students or teachers... In our campus too, TAs can't date their students...

-Vinod
 
His is not a lover

Hi,

I have seen the inteview of his son and wife on news channel. He has not done it first time. He has done it with many gals in lure of good marks.

This fellow does not hold good reputation in university before. I am strong beliver in love but Professor is more inclined towards lust.

His son told that he used to bring young girls at home and his father used to beat him like anything

I dont think a lover can do this

Cheers
Yudhvir Mor
 
RK Ji ,Some ppl are so willing to be in highlight that they even forget what the message is conveyed by them will influence the thinking of public. I have heard the statements of that bloody Professor & the bitch(his lover). So shameful on the par of our culture.................................
rkumar said:
whatever one might say, Lalu certainly has guts and can speak his mind on any topic, however, contraversial it might be. This is what he has to say on the love affairs of a University professor and a student;

Speaking in favour of the 54-year-old professor, Lalu Prasad said: "Love is the essence of god and it helps us understand each other. It is a bond that unites all."

"Love is not a crime, and the professor did not commit a crime by falling in love with a girl half his age," the minister said on Sunday at Hajipur near Patna where he had gone to attend an official function


http://www.hindustantimes.com/news/181_1746170,000900030002.htm

RK^2
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so what if they r in love

everybody is giving an opinion so could not stop myself ,,,,i dont think tht the girl did and mistake nor the professor did anything wrong ,,,why cant a man who doesnt have a compannionship ,,doesnt have a right to search for love ,,just bcoz he is 54 year old ,,,,and the girl doesnt have right ,,,coz the guy is 20 yrs older than her age ,,,,,what non sense ,,,may be the girl matched his frequency ,,,,,,what is ur problem ....and tht too even if he is married ,,,,,he cant be thrown in jail coz of adultry ,,,,
and tht too it is just the matter of personal choice ,,,who r we to intefere in anybody's life ,,,,,thank god tht those people who r against there love(in capital letters) are not THAKEDAR of this society otherwise ,,,,,to unn duno ka kuch nahin hona tha......shukar hai ,,,bagwan ka ,,u guys are not previllaged enough to enter in there life ..................
raj_rathee said:
What an illogical argument !!!

The point here is that the 21 year old girl wants that. Not whether
her relatives want it. Unka ji karta hoga tae woh bhi
kar lo. Na karta ho tae na karo. Baat na acchi laagti ho
tae apni beti nae samja lo. And I bet they've done all that.

Its not a question of what I would want for my relative. You missing the
point or what ?????

All that is besides the point. She wants it. And, for all practical purposes
(and legal age issues and such) is free to do so. That's the point!!!!

The guy at this stage can't. He needs to get a divorce based on law (right
or wrong). ANd sleeping around with another woman is already a good basis
for divorce. (Note that adultary is not somethng you can be thrown
in jail for, as far as I know).

But that is really a formality...isn't it...now that they have already gone
down that path.

Got it ??? It is a question of the choices adults make. Not what
others around them want. Its not a question of whether I or you think
it is a good idea for these folks.
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vijay said:
Well quotes are fine and i admire your hard work for searching these quotes. But i think we are discussing a real situation here but not an imaginary situation so we should be practical but not go through these moral quotations.

Are you ready to marry ur close relative who is 25 years old with an about 60 years old prof. if yes ur GREAT and show that attitude here.
So, in ideal situation, you are ready to marry ur 25 years daughter or close relative with a 60 years old professor and telling here that you are proud of that about your family and that relatives.

GREAT !
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vijay said:
Now my openion,

The professor is ruining the image and respect of the profession and shame on him that he still thinks that he is right. What moral he will teach to his students i still wonder that ?

Totally shameful !
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raj_rathee said:
Lets castrate the immoral prick!!! Off with his head! Latka do usse
beech chorhaye pay. How dare he !

And while at it, lets hang the 21 year old whore as well. Send her to a
brothel. And lets go there to punish her ! And then off with her head too!
...neah..lets just keep her around and punish her more frequently... :p

Jesus Christ!!! Have some respect for the free human spirit!!


;) :eek:



Anyways, some quotes on Morality for your reading pleasure:


Morality is always the product of terror; its chains and strait-waistcoats are fashioned by those who dare not trust others, because they dare not trust themselves, to walk in liberty.

Morality is a burglar’s tool whose merit lies in never being left behind at the scene of the crime.

Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people we personally dislike.

Morality, a muzzle for the will; logic, a climbing iron for the mind.

Morality is the custom of one’s country and the current feeling of one’s peers. Cannibalism is moral in a cannibal country.

All morality depends upon our sentiments; and when any action or quality of the mind pleases us after a certain manner we say it is virtuous; and when the neglect or nonperformance of it displeases us after a like manner, we say that we lie under an obligation to perform it.

Freedom, morality, and the human dignity of the individual consists precisely in this; that he does good not because he is forced to do so, but because he freely conceives it, wants it, and loves it.

Modern morality and manners suppress all natural instincts, keep people ignorant of the facts of nature and make them fighting drunk on bogey tales.

Subordination to morality can be slavish or vain or self- interested or resigned or gloomily enthusiastic or thoughtless or an act of despair, just as subordination to a prince can be: in itself it is nothing moral.

A system of morality which is based on relative emotional values is a mere illusion, a thoroughly vulgar conception which has nothing sound in it and nothing true.

Conventionality is not morality. Self-righteousness is not religion. To attack the first is not to assail the last. To pluck the mask from the face of the Pharisee is not to lift an impious hand to the Crown of Thorns.
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msingh said:
everybody is giving an opinion so could not stop myself ,,,,i dont think tht the girl did and mistake nor the professor did anything wrong ,,,why cant a man who doesnt have a compannionship ,,doesnt have a right to search for love ,,just bcoz he is 54 year old ,,,,and the girl doesnt have right ,,,coz the guy is 20 yrs older than her age ,,,,,what non sense ,,,may be the girl matched his frequency ,,,,,,what is ur problem ....and tht too even if he is married ,,,,,he cant be thrown in jail coz of adultry ,,,,
and tht too it is just the matter of personal choice ,,,who r we to intefere in anybody's life ,,,,,thank god tht those people who r against there love(in capital letters) are not THAKEDAR of this society otherwise ,,,,,to unn duno ka kuch nahin hona tha......shukar hai ,,,bagwan ka ,,u guys are not previllaged enough to enter in there life ..................
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it's not the matter of love....one more family is there with that man...if he says that this is love then what was that when he married to lady who is his wife....and what was that he is having a young son with that lady???????....love is not of this kind....this is all rubbish i think....just a way to enjoy the life...these kind people only break the boudaries of customs and traditions....nothing else....they only think about themselves, only about their attractions and lust....how can a man think of having another lady in his life when already he is having one and with whom he is having one grownup child....how can he get the time to think about these extramarital affairs when already he is having one family...and now at this age if he says that he is not happy with his first wife, then that man is hopeless....these kind people are only bringing a vast difference in our indian culture and society which is going to be matched now like all other nations have.....no commitment in their relations......this is ridiculous....anyway nobody is interested to interfere in their personal matters...but we were just discussing what's individual's opinion on this.....rest to interfere in this matter he is having his wife and son.
 
choudharyneelam said:
it's not the matter of love....one more family is there with that man...

Well said Neelam. I support your view. Really its just a way to make a fool of people. Relations survive only through commitments. The mantra of life is to live for your commitments. Thats why I am lazy in making commitments :)
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yudhvirmor said:
choudharyneelam said:
it's not the matter of love....one more family is there with that man...

Well said Neelam. I support your view. Really its just a way to make a fool of people. Relations survive only through commitments. The mantra of life is to live for your commitments. Thats why I am lazy in making commitments :)
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thanks yudhvir....exactly it's only a way to make people fool and in my views also the mantra of life is same.....a person who is not loyal to himself can never be loyal to others.
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this is what i have to say ----- be happy mate

be happy .,,,,,,,,,,,see everybody has their personal opinion ,,,though he is married ,,,,,,which is like cheating upon his wife ,,,,,,which is wrong

otherwise if he is single and is 56 i and is looking for somebody as a companinon and even if she is 25 ,,,,,,it is absolutely fine IF THEY ARE COMFERTABLE ,,,, nothing wrong in tht ,,,,,

kyun yaar why do u have to interfere in anybody's life ,,,,, there r so many better things to do in life rather than ki
kiss ka affair kiss ke saath chal raha se ,,uss ka affair uss ke saath kyukar chal gaya ,,,,, neau kyun hogaya ,,,, .............dont let people take decisions for u ,,,dont give tht liberty to people that they make u emotinally handicapped........................
DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
neways ,,,chuk it Who cares ......
choudharyneelam said:
it's not the matter of love....one more family is there with that man...if he says that this is love then what was that when he married to lady who is his wife....and what was that he is having a young son with that lady???????....love is not of this kind....this is all rubbish i think....just a way to enjoy the life...these kind people only break the boudaries of customs and traditions....nothing else....they only think about themselves, only about their attractions and lust....how can a man think of having another lady in his life when already he is having one and with whom he is having one grownup child....how can he get the time to think about these extramarital affairs when already he is having one family...and now at this age if he says that he is not happy with his first wife, then that man is hopeless....these kind people are only bringing a vast difference in our indian culture and society which is going to be matched now like all other nations have.....no commitment in their relations......this is ridiculous....anyway nobody is interested to interfere in their personal matters...but we were just discussing what's individual's opinion on this.....rest to interfere in this matter he is having his wife and son.
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Well said Manisha..... U are absolutely right for each of ur words...:D.. Ppl like us always search some matter to criticise others... some one who could not acquire his own desires(... desires means....****).. doesn't want to miss any such chance & throw out all his/her frustations......... this country needs some persons like u which must have the dare to heel this world by his/her revolutionary thoughts......:p:D......... ROOKKKA@ Revolutionary thoughts....................
msingh said:
everybody is giving an opinion so could not stop myself ,,,,i dont think tht the girl did and mistake nor the professor did anything wrong ,,,why cant a man who doesnt have a compannionship ,,doesnt have a right to search for love ,,just bcoz he is 54 year old ,,,,and the girl doesnt have right ,,,coz the guy is 20 yrs older than her age ,,,,,what non sense ,,,may be the girl matched his frequency ,,,,,,what is ur problem ....and tht too even if he is married ,,,,,he cant be thrown in jail coz of adultry ,,,,
and tht too it is just the matter of personal choice ,,,who r we to intefere in anybody's life ,,,,,thank god tht those people who r against there love(in capital letters) are not THAKEDAR of this society otherwise ,,,,,to unn duno ka kuch nahin hona tha......shukar hai ,,,bagwan ka ,,u guys are not previllaged enough to enter in there life ..................
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THEEK KAHI AAPNE..........
kaun kehta hai ki yeh budhe ishq nahi karte......
yeh ishq to karte hai per koi inpe saq nahi karta..........
msingh said:
be happy .,,,,,,,,,,,see everybody has their personal opinion ,,,though he is married ,,,,,,which is like cheating upon his wife ,,,,,,which is wrong

otherwise if he is single and is 56 i and is looking for somebody as a companinon and even if she is 25 ,,,,,,it is absolutely fine IF THEY ARE COMFERTABLE ,,,, nothing wrong in tht ,,,,,

kyun yaar why do u have to interfere in anybody's life ,,,,, there r so many better things to do in life rather than ki
kiss ka affair kiss ke saath chal raha se ,,uss ka affair uss ke saath kyukar chal gaya ,,,,, neau kyun hogaya ,,,, .............dont let people take decisions for u ,,,dont give tht liberty to people that they make u emotinally handicapped........................
DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
neways ,,,chuk it Who cares ......
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prashant whatever you want to write ,,,go ahead but plz maitain the decoram ,,,,i am not saying tht people should agree with me ,,,,but it doesnt mean ,,,,, that they dont have right to express ,.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,go ahead ,,,,,,,
prashantacmet said:
Well said Manisha..... U are absolutely right for each of ur words...:D.. Ppl like us always search some matter to criticise others... some one who could not acquire his own desires(... desires means....****).. doesn't want to miss any such chance & throw out all his/her frustations......... this country needs some persons like u which must have the dare to heel this world by his/her revolutionary thoughts......:p:D......... ROOKKKA@ Revolutionary thoughts....................
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msingh said:
be happy .,,,,,,,,,,,see everybody has their personal opinion ,,,though he is married ,,,,,,which is like cheating upon his wife ,,,,,,which is wrong

otherwise if he is single and is 56 i and is looking for somebody as a companinon and even if she is 25 ,,,,,,it is absolutely fine IF THEY ARE COMFERTABLE ,,,, nothing wrong in tht ,,,,,

kyun yaar why do u have to interfere in anybody's life ,,,,, there r so many better things to do in life rather than ki
kiss ka affair kiss ke saath chal raha se ,,uss ka affair uss ke saath kyukar chal gaya ,,,,, neau kyun hogaya ,,,, .............dont let people take decisions for u ,,,dont give tht liberty to people that they make u emotinally handicapped........................
DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
neways ,,,chuk it Who cares ......
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Manisha i also don't favour those who interfere in others matters...every person has his or her own life to look after....but expressing our opinions on any topic is not wrong...we can think and talk about various matters....sharing our opinions is also a part of socialisation....this is the case of a person who is saying himself in love when already he is having a family...aur jab sabke saamne itni openly aa gayi hai ye baat to koi uss baat ko kyun nahin chedega...and it depends on us whether we allow other people to interfere our lives or not....if we are strong enough and correct at our decisions then nobody can alter our thinking...everybody knows how to step ahead in life, by listening to others or listening to themselves and then taking decisions correctly.....and interfere means disturbing the lives....by discussing on a particutar point i don't think that we disturbed their life in any sense..ghar main bhi agar koi galti karta hai to uss baat pe sab apne apne views dete hain...to ye samaj bhi ek ghar ki tarah hai...and we are all the members in that home...lakin kuch ghar ke sadasya kuch bolna nahin pasand karte...to ye bhi chalega
 
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