Lalu on Love

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whatever one might say, Lalu certainly has guts and can speak his mind on any topic, however, contraversial it might be. This is what he has to say on the love affairs of a University professor and a student;

Speaking in favour of the 54-year-old professor, Lalu Prasad said: "Love is the essence of god and it helps us understand each other. It is a bond that unites all."

"Love is not a crime, and the professor did not commit a crime by falling in love with a girl half his age," the minister said on Sunday at Hajipur near Patna where he had gone to attend an official function


http://www.hindustantimes.com/news/181_1746170,000900030002.htm

RK^2
 
hahahaha....ye love bond to kaafi strong dikhayi de raha hai ki professor aur wo ladki majboot ban ke sabka saamna kar rahe hain.....kya kya dekhenge aur ab hum....hadd hi hoti hai ab to....pata nahin dean kaisa hai uss college ka jo ki uski job terminate hi nahin karta....main hoti to desh nikala de deti dono ko.....aur wo ladki bhi badi bold ban ke dikha rahi hai kisi ka ghar barbaad karne main....pata nahin logon ki sharam kahan gayi....maine to ek baar hi news dekhi unki aur ab bilkul dekhna pasand nahin karti uske upar koi discussion.......koi samajhdari waali baat nahin hai.....itni umar paane ke baad bhi professor ki akal maari gayi gayi aur uss ladki ki to buddhi bhrasht hai hi.....aise log samaj main nahin rahne chahiyen
 
Rajender bhai jaan, this is no love.....it is stupidity of higest order.Aagge-2 dekhhiye hotta hei kya...maryadaon ka nirvah tou honna hi chahiye...Lust shear lust governs such relationships.Shame it is.
 
devdahiya said:
Rajender bhai jaan, this is no love.....it is stupidity of higest order.Aagge-2 dekhhiye hotta hei kya...maryadaon ka nirvah tou honna hi chahiye...Lust shear lust governs such relationships.Shame it is.
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Dahiya Sahab,

This is not the first such case in human history. There have been numerous such cases everywhere and all through ages. Lust alone won't force a man to this extent that he will take all these troubles of getting his face blackened and facing the society to this extent. Also I am not sure about the girl and her age group. Intellectual class is well known for such relationships and there is nothing new or so strange I personally find in this case. One might of course keep on debating the moral aspects of such relationships. Student teacher marriages are no so uncommon even in medical colleges in India. I know quite a few numbers of cases where professors married the students and both males and females from either side have been involved in such cases. More than anything, I would call it just human nature. I won't pass any judgment of right or wrong in such cases.

RK^2
 
Rk Uncle

Kuch kaho Aap Lalu ke karde fan ho. Lalu ne keh diya toh kya yeh theek ho gaya i m not against love but beleive me this is not love. Baaki aajkal time ke hisaab se sab chalta hai.

Abhimanyu Phougat
 
positivelook said:
.........but beleive me this is not love.
Abhimanyu Phougat
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Has anyone ever been able to define what is love? I will like to see some universally accepted definition of love.. Haven't we heard of older married men falling in love ( or whatever one decides to call it) ? Haven't people married younger woman or older woman in past ? As far as number of such incidents are concerned, they were very small in past and remain so even now..

RK^2
 
Definition for Love

Hi,

There is no such defination for LOVE.:p
But i must say that this type of act is stupidity.
Love do exist between teacher and students.
I really respect the feeling of love.:)
There is a lot difference between extra marital affair and love.
This type of person is called irresponsible and a damn fool.:(
I have heard that professor sahab is having a son also,studying abroad. According to professor's interview he said that his son is with him.His son agree with his decision.
But this is his personal issue, we don't have to care unless they are ready to make it pubic.That's what they had done.
Ek kahawat yahan sahi bethti hai Love is not only Blind but also deaf and dumb.
If this desire within him to fight with world exist for his wife or for a person he wants to marry (only when being unmarried), then i am sure nobody who respect love would be against him.:o

Divya
 
As seen both of them during TV interview that they wants media publicity and acting like very cheerful person.

This professor must be understand the relation of student and Age difference.

Mr. Lalu eyes on issue to create unnecessary argue and motivation to wrong relationship. I am doubtful whether this some bad image politicians allow such type of relation by any of their female family member
 
Hmmm... Very typical responses from the Jatland caretakers
of morality.

The prof. has every right to love and lust [Bhai thaara ji na karta ho
tae tham sar ke bal khade ho ka mantra jaap kar lo! Lekin uss bechare ke
pacche kyun pad rahe so. Main tae kahoon soon jis aadmi mein lust na
ho woh tae khaam khaan dharti pe janghan gheran laag ra sae. Mahari
kade ya haalat ho ja toh please koi goli maar diyo.]

Everyone is a free human being and has a right to make such
choices. The female involved is no kid, and is quite openly with
him. So all that crap about teacher-student relationship is a bunch
of Bihari poop.

It is sad to see people so quickly pass judgement on personal lives.
Who knows anything here ? For all we know the wife might be some
goddamn slut who the poor guy has painfully tolerated for all these
years. Maybe she is a man's worst nightmare come alive. Maybe instead,
of hanging the guy we should be worshiping him for all he has endured.
Maybe she is suffering from cancer, and he isn't getting any (aka
Hindi filmi style)...The possibilities are endless.

The guy's face was blackened and in all probability he was beaten up too.
What sort of screwed up civil society
do we come from? Is this how we deal with issues in that "fateecharsthan"
called Hindustan ? Anyone can go ahead and do anything they feel like? Kaanoon
ka kya hua ? I think the woman and her relatives should be thrown into
jail for such atrocities. Is there absolutely no respect for human diginity
in that stink hole ?

[As an aside to Sumit Dahiya. Dude, You dream of a place without
governments. Toh India mein Bhai kya kami hai. Wahan har kooch chalta hai.
Har koi aadmi, jiske baska hai, apni private sarkar bana raha hai.]

I don't want to make this prof. sound like a hero or anything. But
I do think we should respect him as a free human being who gets to make
such choices in life. Smart choice or stupid choice...it is his for the making.

I think at a social level there are a number of things that can be
done to deal with such issues and personal circumstances.

First of all getting a divorce there is difficult. Make it easy. People
should have the right to get out of unhappy situations. Personally I think
that yeh Shaadi ka funda hi bakwaas hai...but this isn't about my philosophies.

The guy may have some financial responsibilities to his dependents (his son,
maybe his wife as well). He should be expected/made to fulfill those. But
he should certainly be allowed to move on with his life in the direction he
wants it to go.
 
Wasn't Radha a married woman and we Hindu's worship Radha Krishna as lovers? As far as my knowledge goes, she was even much older to Krishna..

RK^2
 
raj_rathee said:
Hmmm... Very typical responses from the Jatland caretakers
of morality.

The prof. has every right to love and lust [Bhai thaara ji na karta ho
tae tham sar ke bal khade ho ka mantra jaap kar lo! Lekin uss bechare ke
pacche kyun pad rahe so. Main tae kahoon soon jis aadmi mein lust na
ho woh tae khaam khaan dharti pe janghan gheran laag ra sae. Mahari
kade ya haalat ho ja toh please koi goli maar diyo.]

Everyone is a free human being and has a right to make such
choices. The female involved is no kid, and is quite openly with
him. So all that crap about teacher-student relationship is a bunch
of Bihari poop.

It is sad to see people so quickly pass judgement on personal lives.
Who knows anything here ? For all we know the wife might be some
goddamn slut who the poor guy has painfully tolerated for all these
years. Maybe she is a man's worst nightmare come alive. Maybe instead,
of hanging the guy we should be worshiping him for all he has endured.
Maybe she is suffering from cancer, and he isn't getting any (aka
Hindi filmi style)...The possibilities are endless.

The guy's face was blackened and in all probability he was beaten up too.
What sort of screwed up civil society
do we come from? Is this how we deal with issues in that "fateecharsthan"
called Hindustan ? Anyone can go ahead and do anything they feel like? Kaanoon
ka kya hua ? I think the woman and her relatives should be thrown into
jail for such atrocities. Is there absolutely no respect for human diginity
in that stink hole ?

[As an aside to Sumit Dahiya. Dude, You dream of a place without
governments. Toh India mein Bhai kya kami hai. Wahan har kooch chalta hai.
Har koi aadmi, jiske baska hai, apni private sarkar bana raha hai.]

I don't want to make this prof. sound like a hero or anything. But
I do think we should respect him as a free human being who gets to make
such choices in life. Smart choice or stupid choice...it is his for the making.

I think at a social level there are a number of things that can be
done to deal with such issues and personal circumstances.

First of all getting a divorce there is difficult. Make it easy. People
should have the right to get out of unhappy situations. Personally I think
that yeh Shaadi ka funda hi bakwaas hai...but this isn't about my philosophies.

The guy may have some financial responsibilities to his dependents (his son,
maybe his wife as well). He should be expected/made to fulfill those. But
he should certainly be allowed to move on with his life in the direction he
wants it to go.
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Ha...ha..ha...ha...aa gya bhai....Your response is on expected lines...parr nyu batta ittne dinna kadde anttardhyan ho gya tha chhorre....JYukkar tnne judgement pass karr diya nyuwein orran ne bi karr diya....iss mei kaali mannan ki ke baat sei...arrr suun Shaddi matt karr liye na tei tnne ferryan pe e maar lathhan lyungga...dekhya e na free lance duniya ka himmaytti.....Tu bhi professer bann jya arr dhumma thha de......ha...ha..ha..ha.Nd kaam sei terra.............parr dhikhhe likhkhein jaya karr , bhajya matt karr.Tu jissa khe ga hum tei ussa e karr lyangge parchari.AAchhi direction ki kalppanna sei terri...guuchch de sabh kyanhe nei dyakki.


Paakhkhanddi ki himmayat mei uttar ke aa gya......Kherr marran de sussrya nei jissa kreingge ussa bhreingge.Aur sunna ke haal sei...kissi katt rhi sei jinddaggi.Mei terra herruwa krrun suun jyan tahin bujhjhun suun dhorri..........Nice to see you back with those crispy independent thoughts.
 
devdahiya said:
Ha...ha..ha...ha...aa gya bhai....Your response is on expected lines...parr nyu batta ittne dinna kadde anttardhyan ho gya tha chhorre....JYukkar tnne judgement pass karr diya nyuwein orran ne bi karr diya....iss mei kaali mannan ki ke baat sei...arrr suun Shaddi matt karr liye na tei tnne ferryan pe e maar lathhan lyungga...dekhya e na free lance duniya ka himmaytti.....Tu bhi professer bann jya arr dhumma thha de......ha...ha..ha..ha.Nd kaam sei terra.............parr dhikhhe likhkhein jaya karr , bhajya matt karr.Tu jissa khe ga hum tei ussa e karr lyangge parchari.AAchhi direction ki kalppanna sei terri...guuchch de sabh kyanhe nei dyakki.


Paakhkhanddi ki himmayat mei uttar ke aa gya......Kherr marran de sussrya nei jissa kreingge ussa bhreingge.Aur sunna ke haal sei...kissi katt rhi sei jinddaggi.Mei terra herruwa krrun suun jyan tahin bujhjhun suun dhorri..........Nice to see you back with those crispy independent thoughts.
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Ha ha ha ! ;) :D
Chacha aap kunsa kam so! Na court err na vakil. Bechaare prof ko
taang diya ek jhatke mein...Ke bera ke kahani ho aaglan ki. Kucch tae
tasali karte pehlan, usne taangan tae pehlan.

Vaise chacha, sacchi sacchi bateeyo. Kati saachi saachi. 50 saal ke
maanus ne 21 saal ke haseena chantee ho, err woh 50 saal aala
munh mod le, iss tae faalttoo murakh kaun ho sakta hai ? Sacchi-2
batteyo. Political correctness aur public image ne thori haan side
mein raakh kae. :D ;) :eek:

Chacha, Gita-Saar mein likha hai:

"Jo aaj tumhara hai, kal kisi aur ka tha, parson kisi aur ka hoga. Tum isse apna
samanj kar magan ho rahe ho. Bas yeh parsanta hi tumare dukhon ka karan hai. ...Parivartan sansar ka niyam hai.

...Mera tera, chotta-bada apna-paraya munn se mita do vicchar se hata
do phir sab tumhara hai, tum sab ke ho."

I think chacha inn sabdo mein bahot kucch gyan hai. ;) :D

Vaise mein yahde eh sun. Time koni milta. Kade kade site pa aa sun.
Err phade pacche datta koni jaanta likhan tae. Iss liye aur bhi kam
aa sun.
 
raj_rathee said:
Ha ha ha ! ;) :D
Chacha aap kunsa kam so! Na court err na vakil. Bechaare prof ko
taang diya ek jhatke mein...Ke bera ke kahani ho aaglan ki. Kucch tae
tasali karte pehlan, usne taangan tae pehlan.

Vaise chacha, sacchi sacchi bateeyo. Kati saachi saachi. 50 saal ke
maanus ne 21 saal ke haseena chantee ho, err woh 50 saal aala
munh mod le, iss tae faalttoo murakh kaun ho sakta hai ? Sacchi-2
batteyo. Political correctness aur public image ne thori haan side
mein raakh kae. :D ;) :eek:

Chacha, Gita-Saar mein likha hai:

"Jo aaj tumhara hai, kal kisi aur ka tha, parson kisi aur ka hoga. Tum isse apna
samanj kar magan ho rahe ho. Bas yeh parsanta hi tumare dukhon ka karan hai. ...Parivartan sansar ka niyam hai.

...Mera tera, chotta-bada apna-paraya munn se mita do vicchar se hata
do phir sab tumhara hai, tum sab ke ho."

I think chacha inn sabdo mein bahot kucch gyan hai. ;) :D

Vaise mein yahde eh sun. Time koni milta. Kade kade site pa aa sun.
Err phade pacche datta koni jaanta likhan tae. Iss liye aur bhi kam
aa sun.
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Terre pehlle sawaal ka jawaab arr ow bhi katti saachchi-2...te le suun: 50 saal ke manass tein 20 saal ki hasseena ne pyar ho sakke se...jaruur ho sakke se....'Bhai yo ji tei berra na kyanh pei aa jya'.........par bhai sammajik privesh mein jib ow 50 saal ka khhaggadd shhaddi-shhudda jimmeddar ho tei shobha bi na dentta arr p[ehli aurat ke saathh annyay bhi se....pehli ne chhodd ke[talaak de ke] ferr kitte bi gullchhurre uddao...kissne matlab sei.Arr bhai karran nei tei ow sabh kimm krnne na laag rhya sei.......Bhai aachhi baat konya Rajje.Baakki aagge-2 honna tei nyuwein sei....Liberated thoughts appni jaggah par lekin maryaddayein bhi aapnni jagah parr honni chahiyein......Mei ittna hi kehna chahta huun....behess bilkool nahin karrungga.


Terri dussari baat ka jawaab se te jamma saachcha parr thodda ND sei: Bhai appna-praya Arr saarri duniyadaari ki baat kyukkar bhulla dyan...nyun ke duniya challe gi...........Ferr tei jimmeddariyan sabhki khattam ho jyanggi....Konya ya ghanni si tarakk-sanggat baat konya...haan kehen-sunnan mei kaamal lagge sei jarrur....Chahuun tei mei bhi katti ranna hannddanna suun...parr kyukkar...kyan-2 nei bhullan bhai.



Anyways aantta rhya karr...God bless!
 
Not against Love or age difference.

But what about Professional Ethics and Self Control.

Aur RK uncle Radha aur Krishna kay prem ko please is prem say tulna mat karo.
 
antil-sunpatiya said:
Aur RK uncle Radha aur Krishna kay prem ko please is prem say tulna mat karo.
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1. Please tell us then about Radha Krishna love and how it was so unique that it can not be compared to the present case? Was it just because Krishna was one party or something more than that ?

2. What professional ethics have to do with love or such relations ? Haven't even great Rishis like Vishmamitra fallen to woman beauty?

Why do we look at a common man's love differently than those of great people?

RK^2
 
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Not Love, sheer stupidity.

rkumar said:
1. Please tell us then about Radha Krishna love and how it was so unique that it can not be compared to the present case? Was it just because Krishna was one party or something more than that ?

2. What professional ethics have to do with love or such relations ? Haven't even great Rishis like Vishmamitra fallen to woman beauty?

Why do we look at a common man's love differently than those of great people?

RK^2
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OK They love each other fine but professor's judgement is certainly questionable.

What about the Professor and Student relationship , which has been bound by certain ethics or moral conduct of that profession.In India still Guru/Shishya parampara is revered and considered to be scared.

Professor should have used his judgement, He is mature and man of experience in this case.

And If they were both hopelessly in love. Fair enough then than do it in the right way i.e do what is necessary which will not cause embarrsment to either of them and their families.

And we have good for nothing for politicians teaching the public what love is, no wonder India is going down the dumps.
 
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devdahiya said:
50 saal ke manass tein 20 saal ki hasseena ne pyar ho sakke se...jaruur ho sakke se....'Bhai yo ji tei berra na kyanh pei aa jya'.........par bhai sammajik privesh mein jib ow 50 saal ka khhaggadd shhaddi-shhudda jimmeddar ho tei shobha bi na dentta arr p[ehli aurat ke saathh annyay bhi se....pehli ne chhodd ke[talaak de ke] ferr kitte bi gullchhurre uddao...kissne matlab sei.Arr bhai karran nei tei ow sabh kimm krnne na laag rhya sei.......Bhai aachhi baat konya Rajje.Baakki aagge-2 honna tei nyuwein sei....Liberated thoughts appni jaggah par lekin maryaddayein bhi aapnni jagah parr honni chahiyein......Mei ittna hi kehna chahta huun....behess bilkool nahin karrungga.QUOTE]

Wah ke sahi baat kari se sir,
meri bhi bhin ki bhinn... itni neechpanti ki baat kari us idiot ne ( i dont even feel like calling him a proff its like an abuse to sucha profession)...if he had the courage to fall in love, he should've had the courage to tell his wife about it. Nothing can be more pathetic than an extra marital affair. It can never be a relation..it'll always be called an affair... ghatiya insaan rehta toh apni wife ke saath tha aur gulchaare uda rya tha 20 saal ki chorri ke saath college mein... besharam aadmi :mad: :mad:
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raj_rathee said:
Hmmm... Very typical responses from the Jatland caretakers
of morality.

The prof. has every right to love and lust [Bhai thaara ji na karta ho
tae tham sar ke bal khade ho ka mantra jaap kar lo! Lekin uss bechare ke
pacche kyun pad rahe so. Main tae kahoon soon jis aadmi mein lust na
ho woh tae khaam khaan dharti pe janghan gheran laag ra sae. Mahari
kade ya haalat ho ja toh please koi goli maar diyo.]

Everyone is a free human being and has a right to make such
choices. The female involved is no kid, and is quite openly with
him. So all that crap about teacher-student relationship is a bunch
of Bihari poop.

It is sad to see people so quickly pass judgement on personal lives.
Who knows anything here ? For all we know the wife might be some
goddamn slut who the poor guy has painfully tolerated for all these
years. Maybe she is a man's worst nightmare come alive. Maybe instead,
of hanging the guy we should be worshiping him for all he has endured.
Maybe she is suffering from cancer, and he isn't getting any (aka
Hindi filmi style)...The possibilities are endless.

The guy's face was blackened and in all probability he was beaten up too.
What sort of screwed up civil society
do we come from? Is this how we deal with issues in that "fateecharsthan"
called Hindustan ? Anyone can go ahead and do anything they feel like? Kaanoon
ka kya hua ? I think the woman and her relatives should be thrown into
jail for such atrocities. Is there absolutely no respect for human diginity
in that stink hole ?

[As an aside to Sumit Dahiya. Dude, You dream of a place without
governments. Toh India mein Bhai kya kami hai. Wahan har kooch chalta hai.
Har koi aadmi, jiske baska hai, apni private sarkar bana raha hai.]

I don't want to make this prof. sound like a hero or anything. But
I do think we should respect him as a free human being who gets to make
such choices in life. Smart choice or stupid choice...it is his for the making.

I think at a social level there are a number of things that can be
done to deal with such issues and personal circumstances.

First of all getting a divorce there is difficult. Make it easy. People
should have the right to get out of unhappy situations. Personally I think
that yeh Shaadi ka funda hi bakwaas hai...but this isn't about my philosophies.

The guy may have some financial responsibilities to his dependents (his son,
maybe his wife as well). He should be expected/made to fulfill those. But
he should certainly be allowed to move on with his life in the direction he
wants it to go.
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So what you think financial matters are everything and social commitments are optional. and you want to change the definiton of professioalism. A professor is expected to teach the morality in life to the students but should not led by example this type of practice.

Liberty doesn't mean that one should offence our thousands years old culture where teacher is considered even more respectful than GOD.
Don't take it as just a discussion but think about the reality if the girl belongs to ur relative or like that. Do you have the courage to accept that in that situation and i know its net and u can type anything, who cares, but not practically, man.

If u still think in that way, i don't want to argue.

God bless you.
 
rkumar said:
1. Please tell us then about Radha Krishna love and how it was so unique that it can not be compared to the present case? Was it just because Krishna was one party or something more than that ?
RK^2
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RK Sir,

First of all who knows that Radha really existed ? Its just a poetic love described by some poet. And if Radha existed and than as the poet told us thet Radha was elder than Krishna but there was no teacher-student relationship and was not such an age difference as we are discusing here on the present topic.

That means two issues :
Age difference : professor is almost twice as the age of student. (According to poets the age difference b/w Radha and Krishna was 2-4 years only)
the profesion : Krishna were not a teacher of Radha.

So, the example is totaly irrelevent.
 
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