Love - whether it emanates from heart or brain?

Love ko bhoola nahi aa sakta. kisi se pyar hona achi baat hai.pyar dono taraf se ho to acha rahta hai.lekin agar 1 sided hai to wo us insaan ke liye preshani ban jaata hai jise love hai hi nahi.to acha yahi hai ki jaisa bhi relation wo rakhna chahe wesa rakho.apne love ki respect karo. jab kisi se bahut jyada love karo to kuchh galtiya ho hi jaati hai.unhi ki wajah se relation end ho jaata hai.
jise love nahi hai wo preshan hokar kuchh na kuchh aisa kah deta hai jo pyar karne waale ko saari umar yaad rahta hai.sochata hai ki jisse itna love kiya usi ne aisa kaha.

ये दिल ही था जो सह गया, वो बात ऐसी कह गया
कहने को फिर क्या रह गया, अश्कों का दरिया बह गया


When you love someone so deeply, these things are bound to happen. ye sab samjh aata hai lekin tab tak der ho chuki hoti hai.jitni jaldi samjh aa jaye utna achha. Respect your love and also respect the feeling of other person who want to go out of relation.
jab ye baat samjh aa jaye tabhi chhod do free use.insaan samjh aane ke baad sochta hai ki meri wajah se doosre insaan ko itni problem hui aur baat ko suljhana chahta hai.wo suljhegi nahi,ulte ulajhti jaati hai.
yaado ko sahej kar rakkho and enjoy the life.expect hi naa karo ki pyar ke badle pyar milega. hume us insaan ka aabhaari hona chahiye jiski wajah se huamre andar itna pyar panpa.

riyaa said:
मुझे नही लगता के कोई अपने सच्चे प्यार को इतनी आसानी से भुला सकता है, जब भी आप अकेला महसूस करेंगे बस अपने love ones को ही याद करेंगे, चाहे उसके बाद आप गहरी साँस लेकर अपने आप को दिलासा दे..
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htomar said:
ye wo aag hai jo lgaye na lage,bujhaye na bujhe..
Love 1 baar ho jata hai to uske baad partner kuchh glat nikal jaye to isse gusa aayega but love kam nahi hota.
mujhe aaj bhi 1 yaad hai.1 frnd ki lover ne use kaha ki tum cheap ho,mad ho,aise ho waise ho.but usne koi reply nahi diya.hansta raha.
mene aise hi poochha ki usne tumhe itna bura kaha lekin tumne kuchh nahi kaha.uska answer tha ki pyar karta hu isse.
ye kya kahti hai,kya samjhti hai.isse dukh to hota hai par pyar kam nahi hota.iski ichchha hai jo kahle.
agar shadi ke baad bhi pta chale ki uska koi affair hai to divorce ho sakta hai.wo insaan ye to kahega ki glat insaan se love hua tha.but love tab bhi rahta hai.use nahi bhulaya jaa sakta.
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Boy, you probably are talking about obsession of what you can't get.


A better song which among crowd of romantic illusions make some sense. Watch and listen.



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riyaa said:
yeah I will keep loving my partner/lover/husband as I claim.I don't think the person we love, we should keep there boundaries..Let them do what makes them happy..One day they will decide there own what is right and wrong for them..Mujhe gussa tou aayega par mere pyar se kam....its like i wrote in honour killing thread, body ke kisi part mai infection hou tou usae kata nhi jata...ilaaj kiya jata hai..
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Riya,

Continous bomabardment of westernised media on your brain 've made your thinking pattern irrational about love and relationships. The one who love other more than oneself is lacking self-esteem severely. No healthy person in love would forgive such a grave mistake and let it go freely.



duhan said:
Only if your own mind is fickle about love.

Regards,

Urmila.
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Urmila,

It is heart which is animal not mind. Feelings/emotions are fickle and establishly fickle in human behaviour. Mind is more towards objective and logical side provided you don't ignore its logics under gush of emotions. Everything in this world comes with an expiry date even love. Only romancing with oneself lasts forever.
 
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One can easily make out from all the above replies/comments " YAA CHOREE KAI THO BHAAJJI HOR HAI KAI PHER BHAJJHAIGEE ARR CHORA BHI KOE NAAEE KA YAA KUMHAAR KA PAAWAIGA", guarntee ki baat hai.(I could reply directly but no one wants to talk people like this type of mentality).
 
Samarkadian said:
Boy, you probably are talking about obsession of what you can't get.
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Theek kaha samar ji.. lekin first love and obsession ke beech mai jyada fark nahi hota.
maa ke pet se koi seekh kar nahi aata.mistakes hoti hai.unhi se seekhta hai insaan.
aur to sab kaamo mai doosro ki galti se bhi seekh mil jaati hai.lekin is pyar ke mahakme mai khud hi thokar khakar sambhla kare.
 
mhundpuriamann said:
One can easily make out from all the above replies/comments " YAA CHOREE KAI THO BHAAJJI HOR HAI KAI PHER BHAJJHAIGEE ARR CHORA BHI KOE NAAEE KA YAA KUMHAAR KA PAAWAIGA", guarntee ki baat hai.(I could reply directly but no one wants to talk people like this type of mentality).
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Arre ke keh gya ustaad yo tu...halwe mai noon ki dalli ger gya..
Bhai maana ye topics thode filmy se hain ar time pass sauda se par aagli matrimonials aale business mai hai(not sure about this) to naturally byaah,love aale questions dimaag mai aate honge..aur jatland pe ke chaal rha se kaam ka
Nu kisi ke kuch likhne se uska ke bera paate hai
Bhaajti hogi to acchi baat,na bhaajti hogi to aur bhi aachi baat...Tu kyan te apni mithaai ka swaad kharaab kare hai
Swaad Le..Kaache Kaat

Ram RAm
 
mhundpuriamann said:
One can easily make out from all the above replies/comments " YAA CHOREE KAI THO BHAAJJI HOR HAI KAI PHER BHAJJHAIGEE ARR CHORA BHI KOE NAAEE KA YAA KUMHAAR KA PAAWAIGA", guarntee ki baat hai.(I could reply directly but no one wants to talk people like this type of mentality).
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भाई जीतेन्दर तू तो ढाबे के प्रेम में इस्सा डूब्या अक जाट लेण्ड पे मिन्हे-महिन्या में आवे से | तू ढाब्बे तें एक तरफ़ा प्यार केरे स अक ढाब्बे ने भी तेरे तें प्यार में कुछ रिटर्न दिया ?
 
मेने बहुत सोचा हे
प्रेम ,केमिकल लोचा हे

लोचा=गड़बड़
 
आज कल जाटलैंड पर प्रेम और प्रेम से सम्बंधित विषय पर काफी चर्चाये चल रही है!इसी विषय पर सोचते सोचते एक प्रश्न मेरे जहन में आया!
एक इन्सान अपने प्यार की ख़ुशी के लिए अपने प्यार का त्याग कर देता है वहीँ कोई दूसरा इंसान अपने प्यार को पाने के लिए किसी भी हद तक जा सकता है!फिर ये दो इंसानों में प्रतिवाद कैसा ? दोनों ही प्रेम नामक संस्था में विश्वास करते है! ध्यान रहे उपरोक्त अवस्था में प्यार एक तरफ़ा है!

जाटलैंड सदस्य इस परिस्तिथि में कौन सा विकल्प चुनेंगे ?
 
akshaymalik84 said:
आज कल जाटलैंड पर प्रेम और प्रेम से सम्बंधित विषय पर काफी चर्चाये चल रही है!इसी विषय पर सोचते सोचते एक प्रश्न मेरे जहन में आया!
एक इन्सान अपने प्यार की ख़ुशी के लिए अपने प्यार का त्याग कर देता है वहीँ कोई दूसरा इंसान अपने प्यार को पाने के लिए किसी भी हद तक जा सकता है!फिर ये दो इंसानों में प्रतिवाद कैसा ? दोनों ही प्रेम नामक संस्था में विश्वास करते है! ध्यान रहे उपरोक्त अवस्था में प्यार एक तरफ़ा है!

जाटलैंड सदस्य इस परिस्तिथि में कौन सा विकल्प चुनेंगे ?
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yaa sansthaa kit s bhaai ?
 
akshaymalik84;268094 ?[/QUOTE said:
Aakshay jee, I think, in both scenario it is the personal experience of love by the two people that matters. I don't like the phrase "kisi bhi hadd tak' - it is best to do things upto a certain limit so that life remains in balance.

Regards,

Urmila.
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Look this love thing from the perspective of Man and Women.

In a relation, Mostly men know whether its an infatucation or something else like love but women always think they are in love.Women believe that, if they find the right person, intense feelings can last. They’ve been taught to believe that they should only want sex with someone they love. So when a woman desires a man, she thinks she is in love, and when the desire fades she thinks she is out of love.

There is a song which goes something like this:​

I always dreamed the boy I loved would come along
And he’d be tall and handsome, rich and strong.
Now that boy I love has come to me,
But he sure ain’t the way I thought he’d be.
He doesn’t look like a movie star,
He doesn’t drive a Cadillac car,
He sure ain’t the boy I’ve been dreaming of,
But he’s sure the boy I love .​

 
KabulPur
http://article.wn.com/view/WNATbbd1d8e16b70f8bfc5237c7cad930fbb/
http://hindi.webdunia.com/%E0%A4%B8%E0%A4%BE%E0%A4%A4-%E0%A4%AA%E0%A4%B0%E0%A4%BF%E0%A4%9C%E0%A4%A8%E0%A5%8B%E0%A4%82-%E0%A4%B0%E0%A4%B9%E0%A4%B8%E0%A5%8D%E0%A4%AF%E0%A4%AE%E0%A4%AF/%E0%A4%B8%E0%A4%BE%E0%A4%A4-%E0%A4%AA%E0%A4%B0%E0%A4%BF%E0%A4%9C%E0%A4%A8%E0%A5%8B%E0%A4%82-%E0%A4%95%E0%A5%80-%E0%A4%B0%E0%A4%B9%E0%A4%B8%E0%A5%8D%E0%A4%AF%E0%A4%AE%E0%A4%AF-%E0%A4%AE%E0%A5%8C%E0%A4%A4-1090915148_1.htm
http://hindi.webdunia.com/प्यार-परिवार-जान/प्यार-के-लिए-ले-ली-पूरे-परिवार-की-जान-1090920037_1.htm
Babankheri/Bavankhera

http://visfot.com/index.php?news=121
http://khabar.ibnlive.in.com/news/36028/3/20
http://kkchauhan.blogspot.com/2010/07/kk-chauhan-sholay-yeh-dosti-sad.html
मध्*य प्रदेश के मुख्*यमंत्री शिवराज सिंह के पूर्व पीए के बेटे
http://policewala.in/article-detail.php?ArticleID=1679&CategoryID=35
गोहाना
http://www.bhaskar.com/article/HAR-OTH-refused-to-kill-2125020.html
Jind
http://www.pressnote.in/CRIME-NEWS_92079.html
 
Its enough on love above, Can I make little change if VP singh ji allow, let make it..

Decisions in life, should be taken from heart or mind??
 
riyaa said:
Its enough on love above, Can I make little change if VP singh ji allow, let make it..

Decisions in life, should be taken from heart or mind??
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Yes, why not Riya? What I would like to suggest is that you can add above caption to the original title of the thread instead of changing it. Love should remain the main theme but you can expand the area of discussion. You will have to specify what kind of decisions you are going to discuss here because there are certain decisions which do not offer any binary choice of yes or no.
 
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What dominates a person's decisions, it is all about brain-how evolved it is or utter lack of it.
 
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