^~@ Marriages are made in HeAvEn ?? @~^

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I think marriages are made in tents or banquent halls.
Also, where are divorces made - hell? NO wrong answer, they are made in courts.
 
In Afganstan, and other war torn areas of Muslim world where thousands of families live in tents, that happens in tents also. Talaq, talaq, talaq!!! in a tent

This is really witty ! Satyepal Sir ..... i don't know when people will try to understand that if they don't have anything constructive to post then they should not post there instead of trying to prove that the topic itself is irrelevent.
 
Sabhi log career ke peeche daud bhaag rahe hai aajkal...so..lagta hai ki marriage to bas ek COMPROMISE ban kar rah gayi hai..

match ka to ji ye hai ji... ki...

MBA ko MBA chahiye
IT ko IT chahiye
Doctor ko Doctor
Teacher ko Teacher chahiye
Package ko Package chahiye
NRI ko NRI chahiye
Modern ko Modren chahiye
Dehati ko Dehati chahiye:)
Lambe ko Lambi
Mote ko moti
Chhote ko chhoti
Gore ko gori
...but...ek twist aayela hai idhar .....aur to aur Kale ko bhi Gori chahiye
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......huff.....he bhagwan.....sabke apni apni wishes hain...

....ji haan.....bas yahi hai.....aajkal......

Heaven wala sytem closed ho gaya hai aajkal shayad....

...Actually GOD has only limited seats there.......so apply early......

ALL THE VERY BEST TO ALL, ALL & ALL....:):):)
 
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Theek kaha Rahul - God has limited seats out there.....

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That is how things were in 1958 possibly may throw some light on the questions being raised the husband wife relationship is the same even today possibly the bonds may not be that strong Hope I am wrong BLS

An extract from my forthcoming book



"...Though the main doors to the Drawing room were open I still took a detour and entered the room from the side-door. There she was and it was for the first time that I was looking at a girl like that.
…..I was instantly captivated by her expression of innocence which effortlessly penetrating the numerous layers of defence so assiduously built over time by me falling in quick succession.

…..Strange things do happen in life: Unknown the two of us, at that instant, till now two strangers were falling in love.

….Though seeing her for the first time strongly I felt that I had known her for long she was the exact picture of someone whom I have been searching all this time. She looked at me not as if at a stranger but at some body long lost her eyes trying to tell me some thing also as if she was trying to make sure if it was me in reality.

I knew that my search had ended; I had found her at last. I still remember that day as if it was yesterday. …..I looked at her and saw the innocence and open vulnerability in her expression. The looks in her eyes and the expression on her face were more important to me than how she was dressed. I don’t think I can describe it. But yes I could sense an internal struggle and the clash of thoughts going in her mind...."


And this she is what she experienced on that Day of our first meeting....as she wrote …. And I found after 42 years of our first meeting in her affects after her sad demise
….as you entered the room I lowered my eyes knowing fully well that every one would be looking at me and that is exactly what happened. I looked at you the moment I got a chance and saw you looking at me. I was not scared but the very thought that you must be wondering as to why she is looking at me I let my eyes remain where they were but removed my attention. Once again I tried to look at you unsuccessfully three or four times and then when you were busy showing me the photos I looked at you. Once again I felt that I had seen you earlier-but where I could not fathom. Till now I had not reached any definite conclusion in my mind I clubbed you with the others wondering that if we got married the wishes of this person will rule over me.

Then once again I looked at you I wanted to conform if you really did like me although from all your talk and actions the proof was there for me to see yet I could not believe it. I was looking at you in surprise

….wondering as to what was in me that you had found such faith in me and accepted me so quickly. I was finding it difficult to understand the situation as to why you had done this and also why nothing was happening to me. And then when you told me about your going back I failed to understand as to why you had mentioned that to me….. That is what happened the last day that you were going it appeared all so strange. I was wondering as to why all this was happening and in this confusion you left. Once you left I developed some courage in myself and started thinking about this turmoil going on inside me I even started missing you and feeling your absence. I wished that you could repeat your question. Yes now I may be able to say some thing. I felt bad as to why I did let you go empty handed why I did not say any thing at that time but then whenever I had looked at you I went blank I do not understand as to what I was thinking at that time. I feel I will never be able answer this.”

A s translated from Hindi

That was a very moving tale of love, sir
 
I think marriages are made in tents or banquent halls.
Also, where are divorces made - hell? NO wrong answer, they are made in courts.
Bilkul thik kha sidchhikara ji ab to dhel bhi kawari rahajati hai vase aaj kal logo ke ghar chote chote hote hai aur barth badi badi.....
 
"Is all this a game of fate, or just a play of coincidence, a fluke ? It would be great to listen to people who wish to share any such incident or how they met their life partner or did it came as a surprise for them or it felt pre-destined ?"

That was the question the author of this asked . However , no one except me have narrated the incident as to How I and my future Bride met and what was it that passed in our respective minds at that time and slightly later'

Are all contributors to the thread unmarried ?

BLS

 
"Remember that a successful marriage depends on two things: finding the right person and being the right person".
 
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चारपाई..........?

wahi main keh narwal ji :D meri tai dahi si jaman ho rahi haade munich ke jaade mein !
ek aap pai bharosa kiya tha ki kimai karwaaoge :( aapne bhi rukh sa bhi na kara !!
koi to katwa do rog sa !!!
अनील जी...;)..मैं के दुल्हन बगल में लिया हान्डू सूँ...:confused:..के जब चाहूँ दोनों बाजू फ़डफ़डाऊं ओर दुल्हन टपकने लग जायें..:eek:..?
तरस तै मैने भी आ रही सै थारै पै.....मेरी भी इच्छा सै के भाई के बरामदें में लाल चुन्दडी सूखे..:)...शाम ने दरवाजे पै भाई के इन्तजार मे..:cool:....कोइ सुथरी सी जाकती..:rolleyes:..खडी रहे....आखिर भाई कब तक चारपाई के दोनों तरफ़ उतरता रहेगा..:p:D..?
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"Is all this a game of fate, or just a play of coincidence, a fluke ? It would be great to listen to people who wish to share any such incident or how they met their life partner or did it came as a surprise for them or it felt pre-destined ?"

That was the question the author of this asked . However , no one except me have narrated the incident as to How I and my future Bride met and what was it that passed in our respective minds at that time and slightly later'

Are all contributors to the thread unmarried ?

BLS


I am !!!

@ Narwaal ji
: chalo jeee nai maada daat loon soon bhagwaan aapki manokaamna mere byaa,h ke baare mein :D safal kare :D

@ vijay : u r right but things are stretched too far.

i wont categorise these things as constructive.

we all know and appreciate human relationship and feelings are very complex things and there cant be an end to it . and similar things have been put in some other form somewhere !! u cant just keep making threads with all flashes of thoughts that cross ur m during the day. at least for me there is a limit to which i can redo similar things !!!!
 
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Thread kuch karwaane ke liye nahi chalaaya jaata Renu ji ....... mujhe indirect baat karne ki aadat nahi hai, jo dimaag me aaya puch liya, private message bhejne hote to aapki salaah se pehle bhej diye hote ! Dhanyawaad.
sweta ye maine thread starter ke bare main nahi likha tha. kya kya comments aye the thread start karne ke baad, apne bhi dekhe hoge. jyada serious mat huya karo
 
heaven me se ke kisse ki jankaari ,meri aarji aali parchi kho gayi dhikkhe hai ,yu anil ne apna no lagva liya pehla lagge hai :D
 
ibbai ibb di sai arjii isliye number upar sai


maade dinaan main dab jaaagi filaan tale meri arjii bhi :(:D
 
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